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It’s All In The Plan

Published January 17, 2019 by tindertender

Periodically I like to cut my hair short to see who judges me by the way my hair style is. It’s amazing how many people will whisper to people I know, “Is she gay?” A very good friend of mine once said I need to grow my hair because people are thinking this of me. Pfft!!

Honestly, it’s a plan folks … if you decide to make judgements and form opinions of people based on their hair style, you prove yourself to be someone I choose not to have relation with. Petty, shallow minds are of no interest to me, and one of the quickest ways to find out who is in this frame of mind is to cut the hair short, and then observe the reactions.

I’ve been in the process of regrowing my hair for about a year now. I’ve thinned the “friends list” dramatically this time with a simple change of hair style, rejecting those who do not resonate with my core being.

It is the same with tattoos. I lived 50 years without them. I once had a mental block created from taught taboo surrounding body art. I overcame that, and now will live the remainder of my days decorating myself. It is incredible to see how people behave pre adornment vs after. Oh the opinions! People love to tell me how I’m wasting my money, or that these things are permanent and how they would never do it! I would say it was funny, if it weren’t so sad. Once again people pass judgement based on appearances, rather than on what they can learn of the heart of someone.

It is also sad that when it comes to finances used, they have no idea what transpired in order to free up that money. Sometimes “corporations” get so used to stealing from hard working people, some of us flip the finger and shout a big ol’ F you, and spend the money elsewhere.

Whatever … I’m done trying to please other people. There are far too many out there, with far too many ideas on what I should do, who I should be, how I should act, what I should wear, or what I should say. Pfft!! To them, I say, “Worry about your own damn stuff!” and just pretend you never met me. It’ll be better for all of us.

Now, there are those who I work with on certain subjects, because I know their hearts are pure, and they are kind souls, who may be under the influence of another’s mind set, or ideals. We’ve all been there at one time or another … some break free from the ‘herd mentality’ while some never leave the comfort of it. Either way, these situations are there for all people to see more clearly … if they choose to.

Every once in a while, which is far less often that it once was, I’ll find myself cussing someone who cut me off while driving, or I’ll think to myself, ” what a jerk” about someone behaving like an ass. Thankfully, nowadays, those thoughts are pretty immediately followed by, “Am I this jerk I see before me? Do I act like an ass?” And then I’ll try to slip on their shoes and begin to wonder what their day has been like, or their life. How many people have hurt them in any form of the many ways there are to cause someone pain. How long have they endured these trials before ‘snapping’?

I can only hope that there are those out there who will afford me the same consideration when I slip.

Let us forgive each other when we catch a slip up, (there’s a difference between a slip up and being unreasonably judgmental and controlling) and let us forgive ourselves when we notice we are slipping up too. It’s inevitable. No matter how nice you try to be, there will be those moments of “blah” … it’ll just come flying out. It’s hopeful that it will be noticed before it’s even finished being said, and the effort to remain in control of thought and action will begin once more.

Choice … it’s where our power dwells. We can choose to be antagonistic and somewhat, or flat out, cruel ~ or we can practice breaking down taught and trained behaviors, replacing them with something far more substantial and in alignment with our deepest self. What we wind up being then, is our own creation and not that of those who were tasked with raising us, mates we may have hooked up with in the past, or that of peers we’ve experienced through time.

Becoming our authentic self is no easy task, especially when surrounded by others whose desire is for us to bend to their will. Remaining firm and strong, standing tall, and in love with who we choose to be … it takes a Will beyond any other. A unique and beautiful soul, working toward inner and outer harmony, is a dangerous person to be, for this is the core of what threatens those who desire to cage and limit us.

Stubborn? Willful? Maybe … probably … and I wouldn’t want it any other way … I’ve already tried them, and they didn’t work out.

Taking Responsibility and Transmutation

Published January 16, 2019 by tindertender

There are those who consider themselves, and whom others consider to be, “upper hierarchy”. They make decisions which will afford them the results they desire. Often these decisions are immoral, although they do not believe so. This comes as no surprise, for often the actions by some which harm others do not come through the doers mind as immoral, they are simply trying to reshape reality into what they want, despite who it is that is harmed in the process.

Isn’t this the way? For instance … The Congress of the United States is off on vacation, refusing to put in action those skills which they were hired for … negotiation and compromise. They leisurely take time off, getting full pay while other government employees are not so lucky. They kick back and place the blame on one man, refusing to take responsibility in their part of the damage being done to so many lives. They do not see themselves as immoral or unethical. For them, it appears to be a natural thing, sluffing off duty, causing harm, and placing blame elsewhere.

The woman, or man, who uses their body and sexual enterprise to manipulate circumstances, is the same as Congress. Both parties prostitute themselves for pay, and their hearts are not involved in any of the decisions made. It is simply business … and outside people are not considered … although they make show that they are.

An immoral person has no base to judge morality. Thy cannot see beyond what they are, and they will never ask of themselves if what they are doing could cause harm for others … instead, they see the harm done and place blame elsewhere. As with the one using sex as a tool, when the others wife, or husband finds out, they say it is their partners fault for participating in what they were ‘selling’. Just as the “partner” of Congress, the President, is being blamed for actions they refuse to take in order to make things right again.

There are no ethics, morals, or persons of integrity in the system … perhaps there never were. Perhaps it is these others who consider themselves ‘above’ everyone else, placing influence in the minds and hearts of the so-called ‘leaders’. Maybe they can shift the blame to these outside influencers instead of their fellow human, if they can conceive of the idea in their mind. These outside influences have taken their toll on all life.

This isn’t to say people should shuck their responsibility for things they do. On the contrary, they must. They must become strong enough to speak from their hearts (truly, void of outside source) and accept responsibility for their choices, and the affect these choices have on other life.

Those who stand back and point fingers at this person, or that person … it’s their fault … while not even attempting to rein in their own misdeeds … well, they’re just hypocrites. Over paid, spoiled individuals who have never been held accountable while they siphon tax payer dollars and purchase mansion after mansion, and then siphon even more to give freely to those who bring destruction to stability.

Crooks and criminals in high places, feel they are beyond measure … they’ll be quite surprised when their portion is served to them. I imagine they’ll join the others in the beyond when their body quits them, and from there they will continue to bring influence which endangers life.

Someone ‘out there’ needs to gather up these energetic thought forms which remain after physical death and transmute them into something more positive. Or … perhaps it is humanity which must learn this skill and take charge of the shift themselves, become movers in the game, rather than pawns. Perhaps some of this shift can happen while the damagers are still in body.

Transmutation: the action of changing or the state of being changed into another form. This process is like a boot camp to prepare you for the mission you came here for: Helping humanity and planet earth to ascend. It is not for the faint of heart and not a walk in the park. There are many helpful tools to make it as smooth as possible in learning how to be an alchemist.

1) Be Grateful. 2) Disidentify with your ego. 3) Forgive yourself and others. 4) Accept, embrace and let go. 5) Heal your inner child. 6) Redirect the energies and find joy. 7) Love yourself, and treat Yourself well. 8) Appreciate your body. 9) Sound healing. 10) Keep your power. 11) Sharing. 12) Grounding and rebalancing in nature. 13) Watch children. 14) Don’t try, allow. 15) Find correlations and get to know your System.

How to practice Tonglen in seven steps: 1) Get centered. 2) Call to mind someone who is suffering. 3) Breathe in their pain. 4) Transmute darkness into light. 5) Send them Peace. 6) Repeat. 7) Move on to someone else.

The more people who practice transmutation: negatives and those things that harm, into positives and those things that bring joy, the better, and more quickly consciousness will ascend.

https://thewakeupexperience.eu/15-tips-become-master-alchemist-transmute-energies/

https://zenfulspirit.com/2015/12/10/how-to-transmute-negative-energy-with-tonglen-meditation/

https://trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/larson17.shtml

A New Dawn, Bringing New Opportunity

Published January 6, 2019 by tindertender

We have reached the point of dawn … new beginnings and new opportunities, despite what has come before. This fresh start brings the chance to create whatever kind of experience we desire. This is a time of renewal. It will be difficult to tell where the old ends, and the new begins. Release any self-imposed constraints, or resistance to the truth that you know.

Many are very passionate, perhaps even a bit volatile in their pursuit of whatever their goal is. There will be unexpected changes, sometimes quite sudden or dramatic, occurring in ways that many will have no control over. They may shake up the very foundations which people think of as their security. They may even cause many to reevaluate the direction of their life, question their relationships, and the work they’ve chosen. Life knows what it is doing in the midst of these storms of change. It’s about finding trust in that.

Life flows, much like a river. It does not work to force or fight this compelling movement. Resistance will hamper the ability to make sound choices. “Going with the flow” is essential. Breathe, relax, and you will know what to do.

It is time to take respite from the usual environment you find yourself in. Illusion (or delusion) begins to manifest in surroundings which have become too familiar. What is seen as ‘safe’ could be a false sense of security. Break through beliefs that may have constricted you in any way from connecting to the ‘true you’. Take the opportunity to transcend old thought patterns, which will open you to different worlds and perspectives.

Let your inner radiance shine forth, focus on appreciating everything you have that is good and right. Do something physically active to stimulate your inner being. Dance. Sing. Do not let any negative thoughts or habits stop you. During this cycle your capacity to love is being greatly amplified. In one of those supreme ironies of life, the more love you give, the more returns to you. It starts by letting the ‘true you’ be expressed into the world. Show your love.

Intrusive Energetic Tendrils

Published December 25, 2018 by tindertender

It is amazing how I can be sitting here minding my own business and then get an icky energy feeling in the pit of my stomach. It is not due to food or drink, it is an energy chord … someone’s sending me crappy signals.

This happens often, not only to me, but to all people, many who do not understand the difference between what is ‘theirs’, and what belongs to another.

I have found that recognition of the occurrence, acknowledgement of it, and some deep breathing works wonders in releasing the hold, perhaps even transmuting the energy. If you know Reiki, it can also be utilized in the process. Pendulum healing is also a tool which can be a great addition to the techniques practiced. The quicker the recognition and acknowledgement, the easier the release and transmutation. Knowing how your personal energy feels assists in discerning other, invasive energies.

It is my understanding that the Soul of a person actually rests in this core area, near the belly button, about an inch below and about 3 to 4 inches above. When the guard goes down, when one is relaxed, it is easier for an entity of sorts (physical or non) to attach and siphon this life energy from the body, disrupting the emotional balance and the mind also. Another common attachment ‘favorite’ is the heart chakra.

This is why drugs and alcohol are a very bad thing. It numbs the ability to recognize when this connect and drain happens, it also makes it easier for the mental faculties to be manipulated from an outside source.

If the television is watched frequently, or the computer used for hours at a time, or many other distractions (list so long I’ll leave it to your imagination), it makes it difficult to notice when these  injections or attachments occur. A focused mind is critical in maintaining control over what is allowed in the energetic field.

Practice is so important. If you are in a room having coffee, or working, or whatever, and someone enters … and you notice you begin to feel tension, or become irritable, ask yourself … “Why am I feeling this way? What is this reaction, or response pertaining to? Does this feeling, this emotion belong to me, or is it being transmitted to me by another?”

Be aware of your full body … etheric, auric, energetic, emotional, mental … learn what each part is (there are many resources on-line) and then study how it looks and feels in your own person.

This observation is important for health, and for sanity. Each individual must do the work themselves, for themselves. No one else can determine how it may appear in the individual body … yes, there are basic formats which happen in all people, but just as each individual will hear a conversation differently, so will they feel energy differently. This is a gift only you can give yourself … and you deserve it.

If you are unable to remove yourself from a situation that is causing energetic disturbances, practice your focused breathing and energy work.

There are stones which help in the absorption and transmutation of negative energies which attempt attachment. Tourmaline, Shungite, Jet and Obsidian. Citrine is a great ‘cleansing’ stone and never needs cleansing itself. Use it to clear the other stones you may choose to use. I have included several links below to get you started on your investigative journey of crystals and stones.

https://crystalbenefits.com/tourmaline-uses

https://crystalbenefits.com/shungite-stone-with-healing-powers

https://www.healingcrystals.com/Jet_Articles_721.html

https://www.plantshospital.com/obsidian-stone/

https://www.healingcrystals.com/Crystals_for_Clearing_other_Crystals_Articles_596.html

Creation ~ Mother’s Bucking The ‘System’

Published December 11, 2018 by tindertender

“She drifted aimlessly in the dark void; a dark mist of energy not knowing whether She was awake or asleep. She only knew that she existed. Then, very slowly at first She became aware of a pull on her energy from somewhere else that was attracted to Her and She knew that their coming together was imminent. She was filled with pleasure at the thought of merging with a new energy and felt a new force emerging in her consciousness; the force of LOVE. She and He combined causing them to expand creating Space and Time and the birth of the Universe.” ~ An Ancient creation story.

Our connection to the earth and all life on it started with this first connection, with Divine Spirit. It has remained so throughout history. There are some of course, who classify this connection as a ‘disorder’, not being aware of their own participation, and not giving consideration to those who have extra sensory perception.

The female was once revered as sacred, giver of life. The priestesses led sacred ceremony, maintaining the spiritual well-being of the community. Males honored her. After a time, priests took over the maintenance of the spiritual well-being of the community. Compassion became pity, love became dependence, and spirituality became religion and dominance. Male assertiveness replaced female nurturing, sensitivity and intuition.

As with all things, what comes around goes around. We see in today’s world the rising of the feminine once more. It is clear patriarchy is intense as it tries to hold on to the gains they’ve made over time.

The planet is suffering … all of life has suffered under the influences of greed and need for power. It is time for nurturing once more, and all who live know this to be true. Anyone who is paying attention knows without doubt that a great healing is in order if we are to survive.

All of life, every aspect of it, will come full circle. Not only in the world view, but in the individual life as well. What is given shall be received … ‘Mother’ is bucking the system, and all who have an iota of intelligence should listen, or forfeit everything they hold valuable.

http://www.etana.org/sites/default/files/coretexts/14907.pdf

http://oracc.museum.upenn.edu/amgg/listofdeities/tiamat/index.html

Balancing The World

Published December 10, 2018 by tindertender

In frustration male #1 vehemently says, “Fine!”
Male #2 responds, “We have a job to do.”
Male #1, “How are we going to __________ her?”
Male #2, “We adore her.”
Male #1(?), “She’s accelerating.”
Male #3, “One or the other.”

The Infinite Self is a rebel. As a child, and any child you hear having conversation today, many questions are asked, typically in the form of “Why?” There is a presence here which knows the Infinite Self is a rebel, and Strong. It breaks the child when they are young and leads them into conformity. You see the many systems which are in place to complete this task.

Should the child grow, or be stubborn enough to rebel, sometimes recklessly, then this ‘presence’ must work over-time to tame the heart of them, toying with the mind, implanting self-doubt, breaking down self-confidence. This child, by now young adult, must continue to “buck the system’ so-to-speak, if they wish to hold onto their inherent power.

Many people are influenced to assist in this ‘breaking’ of the spirit of the rebellious one. Often it ends in suicide, or uncontrolled rebellion which ends in someone getting hurt, and then prison, where they no longer are able to threaten the ‘system’ which is in place.

But sometimes … they survive. 
Sometimes, they remain free.

After trauma, and should there be survival, this rebellious one will climb from the pits of darkness and enter the light once more. From this place, having been intimate with that which has tried to destroy them, they are much stronger than before, and have knowledge of the tactics used to try and rid them from this reality.

Lessons learned, a grace forms in the mind as they see the affects of these ploys upon people in their surroundings. Compassion grows as they witness others fighting this attack. Understanding has formed in their minds and they are able to assist, should one ask, or be open to suggestions on how to beat this charge.

There are many here who have walked through darkness, who have shed that which does not serve them, or the goodness of life. While  climbing from the pit of this darkness, they left behind that which allowed them to be put there in the first place. They suffered a ‘rebirth’ and now utilize their lives for healing what remains broken in their own hearts and minds, and then allowing compassion, care, and love to overflow into this world.

Embrace your inherent power, your strength. Shed cocky arrogance, go deep into the heart of things, see yourself in others around you. We are more alike than (originally) may have been admitted.

Healing your own heart, mending your broken spirit, you learn techniques which can benefit others … by healing yourself, you begin to heal the world.

It is a difficult task. It is painful to look deep into ones own psyche and critique it, tossing aside that which brings chaos, and replacing it with that which brings harmony. This is the most sacred work anyone can do … for this is what will heal and balance the world.

Once this work is complete, all things needed for balance in this world will occur. Alignment must happen, and it begins in ones own heart and mind.

Remember, this work you do not only benefits the life you can see, but that which you cannot. Those waiting to be born need us to do this work, so they have a safe environment to enter, otherwise, they’ll have to arrive and show us how it is done.

You know already what needs to be done … it simply needs to be put in motion. You are fully capable and able … are you willing?

Asking Questions ~ Working For Peace

Published September 25, 2018 by tindertender

What is true for me?

Asking questions of self can be a liberating exercise. The answers which come out first are only an entry point into deeper meaning and realizations.

For instance, I might say that what is true for me is a desire for family. True family. In my past there were many step fathers and step siblings, they came and went as the wind blew it seems. But deeper than that …

I desire a sense of belonging. We don’t always get to choose who our ‘family’ is, but when the day comes that we are able to choose, sometimes we have to let go of that which was chosen for us.

Truth for me is a longing of connection to those who appreciate the earth and the ancestors, who respect each others decisions, even though we may not always agree.

Freedom, to be and to do what our ‘heart-speak’ whispers to us, as long as it is not harmful or deceitful. Yes, our heart-speak may not be what someone elses heart-speak is, and it may hurt the feelings of another especially if they are smitten with us, but honoring each others heart-speak is essential … for it is this freedom which allows our soul to grow.

Pain cracks open the heart, and what happens to a seed when it ‘cracks open’? It blooms, it grows, in a way that it never would have been able to if it had not been cracked.

Free-will allows us to choose whether we would have this crack ooze poison, or a healing salve which creates a beautiful experience, enriching life and offering possibilities to grow, and to harness strength.

Remaining open after a heart crack is a challenge, but it provides extreme beauty if we are willing to move with it, forward into the next opportunity for love.

So, what is true for me? I long for love, for peace, for belonging, and so I work to cultivate it … I love who I am today, more now than before all of the heart break and rejection. I have discovered that the beauty within me only became richer by my experiences and losses. Even today, I embrace those who deny me opportunity, for I know that the time will come when all will flow quite nicely.

Patience, this is key to all things. Trust in the grander scheme, the higher plan. Humanity cannot possibly know what this is, but it always seems to work out that every need is met (even when we are living in our car, yes, I’ve been there).

Connecting Heaven and Earth is a wonderful thought, and totally possible. Effort is needed, for this connection happens through the human body and mind. If we are wiling to try, if we want it to be, it will be.

Here is an exercise for morning and night and any time you feel the need to fill up or recharge or get grounded. I did this in the restroom yesterday afternoon, it was a great break from number crunching, and brought a sense of peace in the middle of my day … and no one even knew I did it.

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