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Who’s Sitting In The Chamber?

Published January 31, 2019 by tindertender

The mind is a tool. The body and blood and heart are all tools. Even consciousness itself may be a tool. But the mind cannot figure that out because … it’s only a tool.

How does consciousness, which is the human, use this tool called the mind? Do they? Or are their emotions controlling the mind? Tame the emotions, get the tool under wing. Be the enforcer. Only you are able to allow emotional dominance over mind. Once the emotions are trained, Pure Consciousness can then utilize the mind as intended.

As consciousness, I stand behind, and over my seated body. I caress the top of my head and acknowledge mind as my tool. All others who have in the past, or attempt to from this moment on … this is my avatar. Mine … period.

Interesting … inter-resting. This body is a resting place for others besides our own consciousness. Through life many of us, if not all people, pick up attachments, and can feel their influence. For a time it may have appeared they were utilizing emotion in order to influence the mind, slipping in through the back door. They use emotions to tweak the mind which allows them control of action. These emotional influences and ensuing actions, cause abundant and intense energy leaks, or flow, which can be utilized by those out of body to remain alive. (No one can really can’t blame them for desiring to exist).

Claim your tools! The ones you were born with. These are your tools. The others? They can watch you become master of your own tool box, your mind, heart and emotions. Practice sensing all influences, and limit them. Remember to do all things with love in your heart, this will keep the vibration lifted, and limit a ‘sinking’ into the pit called despair.

Who needs hundreds of beginnings and endings in an existence that never ends? Movies, dinner, work, rest, etc. All of these things have a beginning and an ending, as do many other activities and thought patterns. How silly is it that Pure Consciousness decided to sign up for these many starts and stops in this world of infinite choice?

Relax … stop for a time and just be.

Practice your sensing of energetic forms, distinguish yours from that of others, seen and unseen. Only by paying attention to these subtle energies will any kind of sense be made of this experience.

Silence is good, even when it is not silent.

It’s All In The Plan

Published January 17, 2019 by tindertender

Periodically I like to cut my hair short to see who judges me by the way my hair style is. It’s amazing how many people will whisper to people I know, “Is she gay?” A very good friend of mine once said I need to grow my hair because people are thinking this of me. Pfft!!

Honestly, it’s a plan folks … if you decide to make judgements and form opinions of people based on their hair style, you prove yourself to be someone I choose not to have relation with. Petty, shallow minds are of no interest to me, and one of the quickest ways to find out who is in this frame of mind is to cut the hair short, and then observe the reactions.

I’ve been in the process of regrowing my hair for about a year now. I’ve thinned the “friends list” dramatically this time with a simple change of hair style, rejecting those who do not resonate with my core being.

It is the same with tattoos. I lived 50 years without them. I once had a mental block created from taught taboo surrounding body art. I overcame that, and now will live the remainder of my days decorating myself. It is incredible to see how people behave pre adornment vs after. Oh the opinions! People love to tell me how I’m wasting my money, or that these things are permanent and how they would never do it! I would say it was funny, if it weren’t so sad. Once again people pass judgement based on appearances, rather than on what they can learn of the heart of someone.

It is also sad that when it comes to finances used, they have no idea what transpired in order to free up that money. Sometimes “corporations” get so used to stealing from hard working people, some of us flip the finger and shout a big ol’ F you, and spend the money elsewhere.

Whatever … I’m done trying to please other people. There are far too many out there, with far too many ideas on what I should do, who I should be, how I should act, what I should wear, or what I should say. Pfft!! To them, I say, “Worry about your own damn stuff!” and just pretend you never met me. It’ll be better for all of us.

Now, there are those who I work with on certain subjects, because I know their hearts are pure, and they are kind souls, who may be under the influence of another’s mind set, or ideals. We’ve all been there at one time or another … some break free from the ‘herd mentality’ while some never leave the comfort of it. Either way, these situations are there for all people to see more clearly … if they choose to.

Every once in a while, which is far less often that it once was, I’ll find myself cussing someone who cut me off while driving, or I’ll think to myself, ” what a jerk” about someone behaving like an ass. Thankfully, nowadays, those thoughts are pretty immediately followed by, “Am I this jerk I see before me? Do I act like an ass?” And then I’ll try to slip on their shoes and begin to wonder what their day has been like, or their life. How many people have hurt them in any form of the many ways there are to cause someone pain. How long have they endured these trials before ‘snapping’?

I can only hope that there are those out there who will afford me the same consideration when I slip.

Let us forgive each other when we catch a slip up, (there’s a difference between a slip up and being unreasonably judgmental and controlling) and let us forgive ourselves when we notice we are slipping up too. It’s inevitable. No matter how nice you try to be, there will be those moments of “blah” … it’ll just come flying out. It’s hopeful that it will be noticed before it’s even finished being said, and the effort to remain in control of thought and action will begin once more.

Choice … it’s where our power dwells. We can choose to be antagonistic and somewhat, or flat out, cruel ~ or we can practice breaking down taught and trained behaviors, replacing them with something far more substantial and in alignment with our deepest self. What we wind up being then, is our own creation and not that of those who were tasked with raising us, mates we may have hooked up with in the past, or that of peers we’ve experienced through time.

Becoming our authentic self is no easy task, especially when surrounded by others whose desire is for us to bend to their will. Remaining firm and strong, standing tall, and in love with who we choose to be … it takes a Will beyond any other. A unique and beautiful soul, working toward inner and outer harmony, is a dangerous person to be, for this is the core of what threatens those who desire to cage and limit us.

Stubborn? Willful? Maybe … probably … and I wouldn’t want it any other way … I’ve already tried them, and they didn’t work out.

Thoughts Gone Wide

Published November 25, 2018 by tindertender

As you argue about my innocence, I’ll stoke the fire. The spice of it is the most extreme by far.

I quietly begin to hang my clothes. As I raise my arm to place them in the closet I catch a whiff of myself. I smell just like a man! I laugh a little as I notice this and the thought that each of us carry both halves of the whole within our being is affirmed, noting that we are more alike than many care to admit.

I consider what objects will be gifted to those in need. The amount of ‘stuff’ keeps accumulating! One person does not need all of this! I’ll organize, then remove that which is rarely utilized.

Release can be difficult … of clothes, of any material objects, of emotions such as anger, jealousy, or fear, of habits that have become so well practiced they are not noticed any more. When something is lost it can be a challenge not to jump to the conclusion someone ‘stole’ it, or ‘forced’ the loss. Repetitive thought habits are the most difficult to release. This is because they are not released, they are transformed into new thought forms which are more beneficial.

I sit for a few minutes and I think about the planet and it’s cycles … it’s 5,000 year cycles. Humanity becomes too smart for their own good after this length of time. It is proven in the mass destruction which is apparent at the end. It is interesting, as those who have accumulated monetary wealth and a portion of power struggle to retain and maintain their treasure. It is a relief knowing they will lose it … for they have not yet learned to share properly.

The low hum of repetitive sound fills the room.

I break free from the current process to find anger reflected over information shared. It is intriguing how some will fight tooth and nail to prove someone wrong rather than simply look at the information as an outsider, without emotional attachment. Has this response been ‘trained’ into the human mind?

A man is all jacked up because a ‘block’ has been put on his content. He swears, he fits, and he screams for attention, demanding that this block is removed. A viewer stated that he ought to continue with his talk, that maybe someone will take notice and he will get the attention he seeks. He replied that ‘liberals’ love to label people instead of asking why they feel the way they do … I do not think he is aware that he just labeled someone all while being quite foul.

Curious why random phrases draw responses from surprise sources. I suppose it is reminder that nothing is private, or hidden.

The below link really isn’t related to these thoughts other than I find it fascinating how truth can be right in front of our faces, yet denied adamantly, while so many fight with each other about who is a conspiracy theorist, or who prefers to live in a comfortable little box. Amazing stuff here!

… And here I’ll leave it.

https://weatherwarfare.worldatwar.info/quotes/?utm_source=Copy+of+geo&utm_campaign=EMF&utm_medium=email

Intuitive Empath

Published September 28, 2018 by tindertender

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I recently attended a shamanic drum journey session with a group of others. As it finished and I talked with my journey partner I wondered to myself, “Why do I sometimes feel like a ‘child’ when I talk to other people?”

It’s as if my vulnerability in the face of their ‘having it together’ leaves me feeling naive, and yet, inside of me there is great courage and strength and wisdom.

I supposed it is the look in their eyes as they measure me up, categorizing me. Perhaps my feeling ‘as a child’ is actually an empathic absorption of their view of me …

Something to contemplate.

Regardless, I will continue to show vulnerability and be true to my authentic self. After all, this person I call ME is the only one I will spend every single moment of my life with.

The Team

Published February 6, 2018 by tindertender

Team of One

As a youngster in school we had sports. Instructor would call out captains for the two sides who would then call out their pick for their team, one row on one side, one row on the other, huddling together as the team grew to make a group decision when their next choice came. Always, every time, I would be the last one called. No one wanted me on their team. It really hurts to be that one.

In the unseen realm there are others who watch, they determine who is who. The only difference here from before is they are unseen, and they can hear the inner workings of all mankind. It’s not about whether you play sports well, but about how sturdy the mind, how gentle the heart, how strong the will. The test is in the capacity to endure, yet maintain compassion.

For so long no one wanted me as a team member, today, I expect the same. No matter what I will continue to try, not to please others, but to test myself. Team of one, holding my own, wearing a smile that is genuine. For in trying, I have given my all, and am quite satisfied with just that. No one else need confirm or deny, whether seen or unseen, my ability … they are free to think what they like … and so am I. We are connected, anyway.

The Dead Are Rising

Published November 12, 2017 by tindertender

Too long humanity has been asleep while other ‘forces’ have laid waste to the land and the waters. They have been permitted to lead mankind into war, walking straight into death, and killing. They have created story-lines to be followed, which seem interesting and exciting, perhaps downright catastrophic … but it is only a story, a ‘creation’.

creation-mythsEyes are opening and hearts are bursting with a love for the planet, indeed, growing for each other, as what has taken place is seen. No longer do people wish to blindly go where they are told, they are considering the path which is being laid out for them.

Personal authority is being embraced, ownership of actions is taking place. The inner integrity of many is coming to the forefront and questions arise as to the agenda of the ‘elite’.

Actions which create our overall reality are seen and processed. “Who are they who tell the world they must war with each other? What is all the fighting for, really?” There are but a few which seem to control the many. The realization of the many is developing, knowledge that they are just as equal in creator-ship as those few. The difference between them seems to be what is desired as ‘creation story’.

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Message from the Leopard:
All that you desire is within your grasp. Upon creation you were given by Divine Providence all that you need to manifest your desires. It is up to you ~ will you use this opportunity for creative manifestation, or foolishness?

There are two sides to every story. Some call one set of these two ‘Patriarchy’ and ‘Matriarchy’  We have seen over time, throughout centuries and many civilizations, that Matriarchy involves birthing life, nurturing, healing, while Patriarchy is usually associated with force, dominance and destruction.

earth balanceThere must be balance between these two, primarily. In my humble opinion, the balancing of wealth must take place as well. What is it considered to be? Wealth to me means health, good foods, sharing and caring between people, assisting each other when in need. There are others who believe wealth is ‘stuff’, like cars and money and title. When these things are balanced sufficiently, all of the rest will fall into place.

Try spending a few hours of the day paying attention … no WiFi, no social media … Just Divine energies, silence, and you ~ Listen for the message.

 

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