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A Battle Is Not Needed To Win This Fight ~ Only A Steady Stream Of Love, One Drop At A Time

Published August 20, 2017 by tindertender

Years ago something happened to me, it took away the ability to have a personal relationship. I, at times, feel as though I have been robbed, that a thief came into my life and stripped this capacity from me. Sometimes I think it would be nice to share with someone, to be held … but truthfully, that is the extent of it, all of the other drama and energies spent, I now feel are better used elsewhere. So back and forth I go with this thought. Missing being close, and then realizing I am close to so much more now days instead.

DSCN0511I recently replied to a blog someone wrote about sex. They wrote that if you don’t get it, you lose the desire for it, you lose the ability to think clearly, blah blah blah. The response to my reply was pretty amazing … quite a few women stated that it sounded like “you can’t get it”. Well, I can, I simply am so over that shallow chasing of the elusive dream. Momentary (whether the evening, the year, or years) pleasure, and the compromising in order to ensure someone else has no complaint … argh!!! Please …

My ex-husband still lives here, and even he is kind of in my space. If I want to shout to the walls, or cry and howl at the moon, I must face his opinion and questions about whether I should get on medication. See, that little thing right there, is why I do not choose to have relationship. I do not live for someone else’s opinion on who I should be, or what I should be like.

That being said, I do miss the hugs. The church I attended in my last home town was great for that fact (one of the many great things). Every one hugged, it was a welcoming and a departure thing. I loved the connection and the freedom to hug someone without that “icky” uncomfortable, too close feeling.

I also recognize that things never stay the same.

Someday there will be another shift, I am hoping a GREAT BIG one!!! Paranoia over being touched has gone rampant. People feel afraid that if they allow a touch, they’re “asking for it”,  then there are those who feel they will “get it” if someone allows a hug, well, they only take privileges that are not granted.

DSCN0519This world is screwed up from the top down. This is how it works, yes … from the top down. We see it in corrupt governments imposing corrupt rules and regulations, we see it in our justice systems where the victim is further victimized and innocent people are punished, we see it in families which allow their children to be abused, and then we see it in ourselves, as bad habits which we may find difficult to break. My hope is that the cycle of all this drama and harm stops with this generation, Right Now.

If we all awaken to the fact that we have been playing rolls created by sick minds, and if we choose to step out and away, breaking free from this sinister game, and do the work to break these “habits”, it WILL change. However, only if we do the work, and look deep within our self to see where the connection has been broken.

Change does not happen in the fight to alter others beliefs. Change happens when the energies to do that fight are withdrawn and utilized for peace … peace in our own minds and lives. This then ripples out like that perfect rain drop when it falls on a body of water, touching other ripples caused by other rain drops. A battle is not needed to win this fight, only a steady stream of love, one drop at a time.

The Beauty Of Being Alive

Published August 12, 2017 by tindertender

From one who knows …

Taking time to allow the brain to create beauty is essential for remaining balanced. Harmony, in our actions and in our endeavors, creates health.

Take responsibility for the energy you bring ~ in ALL situations.

Letting Go

Published August 11, 2017 by tindertender

Despair.

At some point, all of us will most likely feel it. I know of one personally who did not have it touch life until later in years, however, it came, nonetheless.

No one is immune to the swing of the pendulum. None of us are alone in the reality that all must experience these shifts.

True, great love can bring great despair, but I am grateful for those who allow it in their lives, for it is they, who have truly lived. It is difficult to pull through these dark times. A positive mind set and outlook doesn’t always seem to get us where we would like to be. With patience, effort and perseverance, things will shift.

I wonder if sometimes the pain of it all simply cause us to give in to the suffering. I know in my personal experience, for a time, I did indeed give in. I lost hope. But you see, I LOVE life, and so I waited, stretching my capacity to endure even the hardest of times. And the smog of that drenching and suffocating gloom lifted.

Patience is key to so much of everything. Things do not always change because we want them to. No, they become new when divinity sees it is time, for the alchemy of our soul depends on these experiences.

Trust the process.

Sometimes, willingly stepping out from our comfort zone, rather than holding with that death grip onto what we feel “okay” with, we allow for greater good to enter our lives. At times, it could appear as though we are taking steps backward … know that this is the way of change, it may not have any resemblance to what you’ve become accustomed to.

With positive mind set, open eyes and heart, willingness to see the bigger reality of the moment, we can see that letting go is often the only true way of holding onto that which has the most value … LOVE ~ for self, for others, for the world.

Schumann Resonance ~ July 22, 2017

Published August 11, 2017 by tindertender

On July 20, 21 and 22 we celebrated a special gathering were the Earth and Humanity was freed from a huge amount of heavy frequencies that were having a grip on us and was weighing us down.

And on July 22 this happened:

Are you familiar with the Schumann Resonance? That is the frequency of the magnetic field of the Earth. In the last few days there has been an explosion in this frequency. Meaning? The frequency of the Earth has gone up tremendously.

See picture below.

Schumman resonnence

This is tangible for everybody especially the ones who are sensitive. Check this website to learn more: http://schumannresonator.com

Will I Ever Love Again?

Published August 2, 2017 by tindertender

Golden grasses, sunlight and love … this is what I have longed for my entire life. After all this living, after the choices I’ve made and the paths I have traveled, I wonder if I will ever see this place again, and if so, will I be able to stay … this is the question.

My hope is that the love which stems from before time will always remain, and always forgive, and always overcome everything time has to throw at it.

I Wouldn’t Want To Be Like You

Published August 2, 2017 by tindertender

Thinking on those who bear false witness this evening. They do so, not caring that they could potentially ruin another human beings life, causing unwarranted grief, even doom.

These people have a special place awaiting them, and this song sums up the whole of my feelings on the subject, and about them.

There will be balance, and people are choosing which end they’ll ride upon.

Humiliation

Published August 2, 2017 by tindertender

Humiliation is what we allow it to be.

I spoke of the moon, and also the world map, in naivety. I spoke of them loud and clear for the whole of all who be on-line to see and hear.

My good, long time friend warned me not to voice my thoughts aloud, he was concerned of others reactions … people can be cruel. It is true.

However ~

Just as it is my responsibility to self to allow vulnerability, it is also my responsibility to others to give them opportunity to see the darkness within as it spews forth from them in judgement.

So it is my gift … not only to me, but to others as well.

I am not afraid to embrace my lack of knowing, for only in doing so will I have opportunity to learn, only in judging me, will you have the same.

We share this bond, whether it be intentional or not.
It is truly a give and take.

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