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Thought Implants

Published March 23, 2018 by tindertender

It was suggested to me that life, we as individuals compared to the entirety of the universe and beyond, were insignificant.

Filling the Universe

When I view the stars and think of the Universe, and possible Multi-verse, I have another thought in mind. I believe that ALL forms of life are significant, massively important to the whole of it.

When someone tries to limit this value, I reject the idea. I hope others do as well. Allowing someone to hinder the vastness that life is, to label it as trivial, is in my mind unacceptable.

The personal level of importance is huge, and when humanity combines this valuable knowing … well … it fills all worlds, seen & unseen. Choice is ours as to what we fill it with ~ joy and love ~ or something else.

Dropping The Barrier

Published March 23, 2018 by tindertender

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Rigid beliefs will keep people from each other, they will maintain that each are different. People will think that their way is right while others are wrong. Some will be accepted while others are rejected. This is seen in religion most noticeably.

The idea of separateness is taught and developed over time which grows a chasm between us all. It’s based on skin color, gender, the group affiliated with. People adopt the beliefs of others, hoping to fit in, to belong.

Duality is the culprit much of the time, good and bad, right and wrong, in or out. Whole societies are molded from this and there are those who never even question it.

Leave the heart door open. Shutting it down to anyone based on their looks or sects associated with takes away opportunity which can benefit all parties. Life is about assisting each other, not claiming authority over anyone, but in sharing what we know so that all may rise.

The Day That Everything Changed

Published March 22, 2018 by tindertender

Wilderness River

The sun was shining. Leaning back in my lounge chair I watched the river flow, the sun glistened off the rippling current, the sound lulled my mind. It was quite warm, and amazingly there were no thoughts, I was wide open and at peace.

Connection happened just then with those I had not been aware of. I felt like a girl who had just been bestowed with attention, special somehow. I looked around me yet could not physically see the source.

That was summer of 2002. I spent over a decade trying to convince myself of what others opinions were of it, that something must be wrong with me. I drove myself batty trying to come back into the person I was, but chaos ensued … going back was / is … not possible.

For many years after 2002 there was a struggle going on, one which crushed my life. It seemed as though I was not the same person, there was no peace, only constant tug of war in mind. One thing I’ve discovered through it all is there is within me a will of iron. I survived.

Sacred Community

I met a wonderful group where I lived for 10 years after this experience. They helped me open up and to see the possibility and wonder of sacred connection. Chaos began to quiet and I sought to understand, with support from others who had a different point of view than the so called professionals I had been listening to.

I moved again 2 years ago and spent time in solitude, processing some pretty intense emotion. Again, chaos settled. I began searching for others who understand that reality is not what we may have understood it to be, it is so … much … more.

Recently I was introduced to a small group who gathers and the teachings are different and profound. I feel my head ‘pressurizing’, or shall I say, ‘depressurizing’.

Finally, 16 years later, I am so close to releasing all that rubbish and beginning again, with what is true and good and beautiful. I am closer to that day of stillness in mind than I have been since the beginning, I sense it is so near, the space of ‘no thought’. It is not a spacey frame of mind, just complete stillness, in awareness. There is a comfort there I have missed greatly.

SunflowerSoon I will meet another group of people, who celebrate union with life in a different manner than past exposure. I am being blessed with these two introductions to varying groups of people, it’s as though the time has come … to try again, to merge.

Once again this life is molding into a we consciousness. Many others feel it too, it is seen in the actions of people in all arenas of the world.

What a wonderful thing to have someone state so clearly that the mind will find millions of ways to keep a life in suffering. Sometimes, when we aren’t used to sacred connection, ‘hearing’ is difficult, although it happens just the same. The ability to process information needs fine tuning, and I at least find it easiest to sit with others who have walked the path and are able to speak in a way that is readily understood.

My perception of what a wise man once said is, “You can stand stoically alone, strong, yet you are still alone.” Community helps us to stretch boundaries more swiftly, moving beyond where we are in solitude.

Being vulnerable is difficult, yet it is also the door to freedom, truth, and acceptance. There is no need to hide from each other any more.

Ties That Tug

Published March 22, 2018 by tindertender

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In dreams an effort is sometimes made to diminish hope, to strip joy from the mind. The closer one comes to realizing that choosing to be happy is easy, in comes a dream with some sinister act in the attempt to convince it is not. Whether in conscious life, or in dreaming, the reality is that power is within choice and as recently affirmed, in the 100% commitment to release of that which holds us in pain cycle.

When a person who has an alcohol dependency decides not to drink any longer, there will be dreams, called using dreams, that arise. Many at first, over time they lessen and eventually go away entirely. This is the subconscious mind reminding of the matter, tempting the return to destructive behaviors. This is so of all chemical abuses.

The same is true of negativity addiction, we all have this issue. Most is an inside personal bashing of self. Breaking this habit requires effort, it took years to train for it and it can be found embedded in the deepest recesses of mind.

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I am relieved to know that it is quite easy to step away. It can be difficult to believe, so much of time is focused on suffering. In the past it was made clear and I believed it, yet this negativity lays traps everywhere and it is tempting to fall into the snare, although one would never call it a temptation, not unless they really saw the situation.

To remain aware of this and consistently choose to step away from that which will entangle the mind into this pain cycle is key … called the key to eternal bliss …

… thank you friend for pointing this out.

I am reminded that 100% commitment to joy is all that need be done, and I walk away from the cycle once more.

Underlying all of this is a pureness born with, that which we entered life with, before it was manipulated. It is still there waiting to be reclaimed. A person will understand their true strength when they are able to walk away from diminishing behavior and self inflicted pain and return to love. I say self inflicted for nothing has power over us but for what we give it.

Power of choice is inherent strength,
And it belongs to all people.

You Decide

Published March 20, 2018 by tindertender

I am awake and you have observed my dreaming. The morning, the morning, the morning … Imagine the night time when all are asleep, images in the billions, one after the other intertwining in consciousness. Although most are not able to remember upon waking, it is so.

Connection, it isn’t just through the internet that we are familiar with in daily life. I listen to the tones of music.

There are many methods being discussed as to how to attract Love, just as this video title describes. There is but one way ~ that is to BE Love. Cleaning our own heart and mind from the debris of negativity housed there must happen before a calm and peace can occur, which then attracts Love.

Anything which promotes separation, despite the title given it or the mode it operates under is still just that ~ separation.

I’ve been invited to a very sacred ceremony that will take place for 4 days in May. I am beyond surprised and grateful. Even though the culture is not mine (I would like it to be all of the worlds) it is embracing me as one of its own. I never imagined I would be so blessed to have this happen in my life.

The seeker shall always find … for what is sought knows you seek.


Never give up and always remember that when all needed circumstances and mind sets of people are in alignment everything will fall into place. If we remain in openness, willing to embrace that which we desire in life (for me it is harmony and balance with people and world) then it begins to show up.

Many times while seeking we are presented with something which, although it may be advertised as what is sought, is not. Even these can be utilized as a catapult toward something greater. Be grateful for these experiences as well.

Do not retreat into smallness while others hold themselves above you. All life is sacred, including yours, and you have connections which all others do, we are all unique in our perception. You will know this if you sit in silence and listen to your heart, feeling the blood pulse through your body, sensing the energy which powers your mind.

This energy is not separate from you, or from anyone. It is there, powering all people, all life. Depending on the thoughts in mind is how this energy will show up in the world, and we can change our mind at anytime. It is choice, combined with this which holds true power in the world.

You decide.

Slipping Out Of Their Hands Now

Published March 18, 2018 by tindertender

“Don’t listen to their threatening language, just do your thing.” 

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There are those who wish to use you for their own agenda. There are those who wish to stop you from being all that you can be. They see the light in your eyes and the positive energy you emit and they want to close it down, save it for when they have opportunity to manipulate it.

The scourge of the earth slinks about unseen, using others to do their dirty deeds.

Products world wide are laced with toxins. These toxins pollute the mind and body, they dull the senses and make connection difficult. Sickness comes upon people and they are so focused on the pain of it they cannot see the root cause. Doctors today treat the symptoms, rarely discussing origination of the dilemma … and the body and the mind become even more polluted than before.

And then we die, and change which we arrived to incorporate never occurs.

“Just listen … back and forth between sobbing and serious contemplation of the situation. Mind warp at its best.” But is it good enough to fool you? You decide. Will you allow your emotions to be toyed with, or will you step into your inherent power ~ that which you arrived with, that which is deep within you?



Open the door and let the light shine. Light the incense and watch the smoke rise. A bed of sand insulating the heat, aroma wafting through the air.

This is your time. There may not be much of it, use it wisely. Many of the older people did not know, being raised by another with belief that the reason for living was to simply survive. You know better.

The young have limited DNA damage caused by the poisonous market. Their bodies and minds sharp, their desires for peace potent. I consider it a blessing to see them rise and work what some call magic, but I call creation. Intense, honest, free from greed, they see the damage done to the world. They see how it is pushed onto the masses, they see right through the lies.

They are the future. YOU are the future.

Conscious Connection

Published March 17, 2018 by tindertender

Conscious Connection

I sit listening to the high pitch in my ears as well as music, soft without words in the headphones. The two sounds mesh and I feel the pulse of blood course through my body. More than blood though, there is energy, alive and fierce.

I thought of the supplements I take and realized I hadn’t taken them. A cleanse has recently happened … first a 3 day fast, then a cell cleanse followed by little food and much water, or at least more than normal. The body is vibrating a soft hum.

Understanding has changed. It has gone from the superstition taught in today’s world to a deeper source, truer. Many call it mythology, but the evidence cannot be denied. Regions around the whole world have similar data which has been kept in shadow for a very long time.

Funny when really considered … history is a made up story, much of it … mythology more real than we’ve been led to believe.

Eagle staring me in the face,
Huge, hooked beak right before my eyes.

Sensing is quite interesting. Coming into it again, slowly. The first round was too fast. While I do not understand it fully (or at all, consciously) it’s happening, none the less.


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