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It’s All In The Plan

Published January 17, 2019 by tindertender

Periodically I like to cut my hair short to see who judges me by the way my hair style is. It’s amazing how many people will whisper to people I know, “Is she gay?” A very good friend of mine once said I need to grow my hair because people are thinking this of me. Pfft!!

Honestly, it’s a plan folks … if you decide to make judgements and form opinions of people based on their hair style, you prove yourself to be someone I choose not to have relation with. Petty, shallow minds are of no interest to me, and one of the quickest ways to find out who is in this frame of mind is to cut the hair short, and then observe the reactions.

I’ve been in the process of regrowing my hair for about a year now. I’ve thinned the “friends list” dramatically this time with a simple change of hair style, rejecting those who do not resonate with my core being.

It is the same with tattoos. I lived 50 years without them. I once had a mental block created from taught taboo surrounding body art. I overcame that, and now will live the remainder of my days decorating myself. It is incredible to see how people behave pre adornment vs after. Oh the opinions! People love to tell me how I’m wasting my money, or that these things are permanent and how they would never do it! I would say it was funny, if it weren’t so sad. Once again people pass judgement based on appearances, rather than on what they can learn of the heart of someone.

It is also sad that when it comes to finances used, they have no idea what transpired in order to free up that money. Sometimes “corporations” get so used to stealing from hard working people, some of us flip the finger and shout a big ol’ F you, and spend the money elsewhere.

Whatever … I’m done trying to please other people. There are far too many out there, with far too many ideas on what I should do, who I should be, how I should act, what I should wear, or what I should say. Pfft!! To them, I say, “Worry about your own damn stuff!” and just pretend you never met me. It’ll be better for all of us.

Now, there are those who I work with on certain subjects, because I know their hearts are pure, and they are kind souls, who may be under the influence of another’s mind set, or ideals. We’ve all been there at one time or another … some break free from the ‘herd mentality’ while some never leave the comfort of it. Either way, these situations are there for all people to see more clearly … if they choose to.

Every once in a while, which is far less often that it once was, I’ll find myself cussing someone who cut me off while driving, or I’ll think to myself, ” what a jerk” about someone behaving like an ass. Thankfully, nowadays, those thoughts are pretty immediately followed by, “Am I this jerk I see before me? Do I act like an ass?” And then I’ll try to slip on their shoes and begin to wonder what their day has been like, or their life. How many people have hurt them in any form of the many ways there are to cause someone pain. How long have they endured these trials before ‘snapping’?

I can only hope that there are those out there who will afford me the same consideration when I slip.

Let us forgive each other when we catch a slip up, (there’s a difference between a slip up and being unreasonably judgmental and controlling) and let us forgive ourselves when we notice we are slipping up too. It’s inevitable. No matter how nice you try to be, there will be those moments of “blah” … it’ll just come flying out. It’s hopeful that it will be noticed before it’s even finished being said, and the effort to remain in control of thought and action will begin once more.

Choice … it’s where our power dwells. We can choose to be antagonistic and somewhat, or flat out, cruel ~ or we can practice breaking down taught and trained behaviors, replacing them with something far more substantial and in alignment with our deepest self. What we wind up being then, is our own creation and not that of those who were tasked with raising us, mates we may have hooked up with in the past, or that of peers we’ve experienced through time.

Becoming our authentic self is no easy task, especially when surrounded by others whose desire is for us to bend to their will. Remaining firm and strong, standing tall, and in love with who we choose to be … it takes a Will beyond any other. A unique and beautiful soul, working toward inner and outer harmony, is a dangerous person to be, for this is the core of what threatens those who desire to cage and limit us.

Stubborn? Willful? Maybe … probably … and I wouldn’t want it any other way … I’ve already tried them, and they didn’t work out.

Taking Responsibility and Transmutation

Published January 16, 2019 by tindertender

There are those who consider themselves, and whom others consider to be, “upper hierarchy”. They make decisions which will afford them the results they desire. Often these decisions are immoral, although they do not believe so. This comes as no surprise, for often the actions by some which harm others do not come through the doers mind as immoral, they are simply trying to reshape reality into what they want, despite who it is that is harmed in the process.

Isn’t this the way? For instance … The Congress of the United States is off on vacation, refusing to put in action those skills which they were hired for … negotiation and compromise. They leisurely take time off, getting full pay while other government employees are not so lucky. They kick back and place the blame on one man, refusing to take responsibility in their part of the damage being done to so many lives. They do not see themselves as immoral or unethical. For them, it appears to be a natural thing, sluffing off duty, causing harm, and placing blame elsewhere.

The woman, or man, who uses their body and sexual enterprise to manipulate circumstances, is the same as Congress. Both parties prostitute themselves for pay, and their hearts are not involved in any of the decisions made. It is simply business … and outside people are not considered … although they make show that they are.

An immoral person has no base to judge morality. Thy cannot see beyond what they are, and they will never ask of themselves if what they are doing could cause harm for others … instead, they see the harm done and place blame elsewhere. As with the one using sex as a tool, when the others wife, or husband finds out, they say it is their partners fault for participating in what they were ‘selling’. Just as the “partner” of Congress, the President, is being blamed for actions they refuse to take in order to make things right again.

There are no ethics, morals, or persons of integrity in the system … perhaps there never were. Perhaps it is these others who consider themselves ‘above’ everyone else, placing influence in the minds and hearts of the so-called ‘leaders’. Maybe they can shift the blame to these outside influencers instead of their fellow human, if they can conceive of the idea in their mind. These outside influences have taken their toll on all life.

This isn’t to say people should shuck their responsibility for things they do. On the contrary, they must. They must become strong enough to speak from their hearts (truly, void of outside source) and accept responsibility for their choices, and the affect these choices have on other life.

Those who stand back and point fingers at this person, or that person … it’s their fault … while not even attempting to rein in their own misdeeds … well, they’re just hypocrites. Over paid, spoiled individuals who have never been held accountable while they siphon tax payer dollars and purchase mansion after mansion, and then siphon even more to give freely to those who bring destruction to stability.

Crooks and criminals in high places, feel they are beyond measure … they’ll be quite surprised when their portion is served to them. I imagine they’ll join the others in the beyond when their body quits them, and from there they will continue to bring influence which endangers life.

Someone ‘out there’ needs to gather up these energetic thought forms which remain after physical death and transmute them into something more positive. Or … perhaps it is humanity which must learn this skill and take charge of the shift themselves, become movers in the game, rather than pawns. Perhaps some of this shift can happen while the damagers are still in body.

Transmutation: the action of changing or the state of being changed into another form. This process is like a boot camp to prepare you for the mission you came here for: Helping humanity and planet earth to ascend. It is not for the faint of heart and not a walk in the park. There are many helpful tools to make it as smooth as possible in learning how to be an alchemist.

1) Be Grateful. 2) Disidentify with your ego. 3) Forgive yourself and others. 4) Accept, embrace and let go. 5) Heal your inner child. 6) Redirect the energies and find joy. 7) Love yourself, and treat Yourself well. 8) Appreciate your body. 9) Sound healing. 10) Keep your power. 11) Sharing. 12) Grounding and rebalancing in nature. 13) Watch children. 14) Don’t try, allow. 15) Find correlations and get to know your System.

How to practice Tonglen in seven steps: 1) Get centered. 2) Call to mind someone who is suffering. 3) Breathe in their pain. 4) Transmute darkness into light. 5) Send them Peace. 6) Repeat. 7) Move on to someone else.

The more people who practice transmutation: negatives and those things that harm, into positives and those things that bring joy, the better, and more quickly consciousness will ascend.

https://thewakeupexperience.eu/15-tips-become-master-alchemist-transmute-energies/

https://zenfulspirit.com/2015/12/10/how-to-transmute-negative-energy-with-tonglen-meditation/

https://trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/larson17.shtml

Thank You

Published January 13, 2019 by tindertender

I want to take time to tell you how much I appreciate you being here. Not too many folks from around the world seem to be interested in the topics I discuss, but you are here … and I am so happy to know I am not alone when it comes to thinking outside the ‘box’.

This year is going to be fantastic in terms of change, awakening, growth and personal shifts. Please feel free to mention any of your insights here, or any epiphanies you feel like sharing. I am interested …

Gentle Pushes (Or Not)

Published January 12, 2019 by tindertender

The “powers that have been” sought only to control the populace … those “powers” are still in operation today. https://www.newsweek.com/project-mkultra-documents-cia-brainwashing-techniques-black-vault-1073061

CIA Director Richard Helms ordered all MKUltra files destroyed in 1973. This makes the new documents crucial to expanding our narrow perspective on the CIA’s actions from the operation’s beginnings in 1953 through the cover-up twenty years later.

Project MKUltra was an illegal program of human experimentation undertaken by the CIA to discover methods, both pharmacological and psychological, for controlling the human mind. Amphetimines, MDMA, scopolamine, cannabis, salvia, sodium pentothal, psilocybin and LSD were administered to thousands of unsuspecting people, throughout the United States and Canada. Others were subject to sensory deprivation, psychological abuse and rape, including the sexual abuse of children.

If you have been one to refuse the knowledge of what has been done covertly to the citizenry of this country and world, for decades (and probably longer), you may refuse the information discussed in the above link. If only this were ‘fake news’.

The many sudden, emotional, explosive, and sometimes deadly outbursts we see happening all around us are no accident. It has been carefully, strategically laid out before all people. The often mysterious chemicals which are in most of the food items, fluoride and a multitude of other chemicals in the water, a chemical concoction being sprayed into the cloud system, raining down on all people, nano-particles in the air we breathe, various drugs recommended from Ritalin to the most potent barbiturates, being prescribed far too frequently to all ages of people, legally … and pushed illegally. The television shows and news stations inundating households with violence, crime, and immoral messages and acts, numbing minds and hearts, desensitizing millions.

How does one go about transmuting subliminal messages? How does one go about disconnecting the hidden, ‘verbal kill switch’, or other order?

Being aware of, and acknowledging its potential, is the first step. Nothing can be transmuted which is denied and refused. The mind must be consciously, and subconsciously (via certain chosen music and message in the night) trained by the keeper … which is you and yours, mine and mine.

Reject and/or control intake of the message being broadcast, through the television, WiFi streaming, electromagnetic stimuli, and the places and people you choose to be around. If you feel you’ve lost it, somehow, you must find it and kick its rearend back into line … your line … this is your life, claim it.

This in no way, ever, means to claim what belongs to another, whether it be stuff, or self. Leave others be … mind your own ~ focus. Anyone who steps upon another in order to rise … does not rise. Control of self is the highest practice.

This is my understanding, and I’m certain their are those who feel they are actually in the know, may laugh at how silly that is. This is good … for them. We build our own truths, daily.

Allowing others to be what they will be is key to releasing connection with, or about them. If there is no connection, there is no reaction, or at least, there’s a fighting chance.

That being said, I will close my eyes and listen for awhile … beauty my friends … let it fill your mind. Use the higher of vibration to transmute the lower … let beauty override any possibility of harm, or hurt.

Nothing Happens By Chance

Published January 11, 2019 by tindertender

Anything outside The Law, independent of THE ALL would plunge the Universe into chaotic disorder and lawlessness. The word ‘chance’ is derived from a word meaning “to fall”, as in the fall of the dice. The position of the die in the box, the amount of muscular energy expended in the throw, the condition of the table, etc, etc, all are ‘Causes’.

The “Law of Averages” comes under the Law of Cause and Effect. There is always a ’cause’ and ‘because’ to every event. Nothing ever happens without a cause, or rather, a chain of causes.

No thing ever causes or creates another thing. Cause and Effect deals merely with events. No event creates another event, but is merely a preceding link in the great orderly chain of events flowing from the creative energy of THE ALL.

“There is no great; there is no small; in the mind that causeth all.”

Every thought we think, every act we perform, has its direct and indirect results which fit into the great chain of Cause and Effect.

Free Will, or Determinism?

Neither side of controversy is entirely right ~ in fact, both sides are partially right. Principle of Polarity shows that both are but half truths ~ the opposing poles of Truth.

A man may be both Free and yet Bound by Necessity.

“The further the creation is from the center, the more it is bound; the nearer the center, the nearer it is to being Free.” (I visualize a tornado and the chaos and destruction it causes, yet in the ‘eye of the storm’ is perfect calm and peace).

Can you change your pleases and wants at will? Can you Will to Will instead of to Will because some feeling, mood, emotion or environmental suggestion arouses a tendency or desire within you?

The majority of people are carried along like the falling stone, obedient to environment, outside influences and internal moods, desires, etc., not to speak of the desires and wills of others stronger than themselves, heredity, environment and suggestion, carrying them along without resistance on their part, or the exercise of Will.

Rise above the plane of material life! Dominate you mood, character and qualities of polarity. Become movers in the game instead of pawns, causes instead of effects.

Serve on the higher plane, rule on the material plane. Everything is governed by Universal Law.

Man may use Laws to overcome laws, the higher will always prevail against the lower.

In order to transmute emotions such as anger or fear … consciously choose joy and courage. Be a mover, not a pawn.

The word ‘gender’ is derived from the Latin root meaning to beget; to pro-create; to generate; to create; to produce. The word ‘gender’ has a much broader and more general meaning than the term ‘sex’ which refers to the physical distinctions between male and female living things. The office of gender is solely that of creating, producing, generating, etc.

The public mind has formed an entirely erroneous impression regarding the qualities of the so-called Negative Pole of Matter. The term positive and negative are very wrongly applied. The word positive means something real and strong as compared with a negative unreality or weakness.

The Negative Pole is really the pole in and by which the generation or production of new forms and energies is manifested. There is nothing negative about it.

The word “Cathode” comes from the Greek root meaning descent; the path of generation, etc. The Cathode or Negative Pole is the Mother Principle of electrical phenomena, and of the finest forms of Matter as yet known to science.

~ Excerpts from The Kybalion

Could it be that there is indeed something separate from THE ALL? It appears that perhaps there is, for by explanation of this possibility, it would plunge the Universe into chaotic disorder and lawlessness. Is this not what the majority of the world is experiencing now?

What is this something separate? By what name does this thing go? Are humans thoughts actually their own? Are their actions that of Free Will, or are they determined by this ‘separated’ force?

“The further the creation is from the center, the more it is bound; the nearer the center, the nearer it is to being Free.” How far off center has humanity actually gotten? Is there a way to get back to it, to realign with the central form of THE ALL and therefore become free once more?

How many people are interested in transmuting the lower energies, by way of the higher? Is there anyone willing to learn, to practice? Or are people simply comfortable having their emotions triggered and manipulated by those who desire chaos? Someone asked me once, “Why would we want to take that on, rather than send it out and away?” The answer is clear … the damaging energies sent away are never changed, and are free to return, doubling the efforts previously applied. Transmutation is the only way out of this chaotic mess we swim in.

This shift starts by transmuting ones own personal thoughts and moods. If one feels fear, they ought to consciously choose to be courageous. If one feels anger, they must choose to feel peace. If one is depressed, they must consciously choose happiness. The mind is a powerful tool, and every single person has this tool at their disposal. They can choose to master the tool, or be mastered by it. Power resides in choice, and choice over how one forms personal thought processes can never be taken, only relinquished.

To engender, to create an inner world which is chosen, rather than imbued by others, is the perfect way to lay claim to ones Sovereignty. It is the first step to gaining freedom in a highly controlled world.

Trained habits of thought and action, especially if harmful to self or others, are meant to be broken. Shed the molding received from years past, and rebuild your you from the ground up. Choose who you will be, in alignment with the world you wish to see formulated, and the honor which dwells within you. Claim your power.

Meandering Mind

Published January 10, 2019 by tindertender

Seeking to go higher, there is now a solidification into the physical. When the rise is a ‘forced’ manipulation, it cannot succeed. There will be an anchoring to the earth.

I had vision of a swatch of brown next to a swatch of orange. On top of it were daisy flower heads. Orange is the color of joy and creativity while brown signifies stability, healing and warmth. The daisy suggests new beginnings and pure, innocent, true love.

Last night I attended a shamanic sound bath. It was an amazing experience in which it occurred to me that the thumbprint, and all fingerprints, are the equivalent to the rings occuring in the growth of trees. In humans, the fingerprint can tell of a persons personality traits, while the rings in trees typically tell of age, and the environment through every year of its life. Life can be pretty tough on a tree! Drought, excessive rain, fire, insect plagues and disease epidemics, injuries, thinning, air pollution, all leave their mark on a tree’s annual growth rings. In these instances, personality and character in one reflects environment and trials in the other.

“4th generation of humanity” … there have been many civilizations throughout time which seemingly disappeared, and while some actually did, others migrated and became another tribe, another face in the world and new communities. We are on the precipice of another major shift in life. Should humanity not heed the warnings, should they not alter course accordingly, many people will find themselves vanished … and those who remain, will merge into the 5th generation of humanity … perhaps even being genetically modified to withstand what remains of the atmosphere. Select ALL and copy/paste.

The days of the week are labeled as Sun-day; Mon-day; Tues-day; Wednes-day; Thurs-day; Fri-day; Satur-day. The meaning of Sun is light. Mon means one. Tues in French means you are. Wednesday literally means middle. One idea of Thur is the action of union between two halves, as in a kiss. Fri = free; independent. Sat is the past tense of sit … perhaps because, on the 7th day He rested.

The human being is but a fractal … Time is fractal. Space is fractal. Everything is connected, nothing is by chance.

http://www.fractal.org/Life-Science-Technology/Publications/Fractals-and-Human-Biology.pdf

https://doc.lagout.org/science/0_Computer%20Science/Beyond%20the%20Physical%20a%20synthesis%20of%20science%20and%20occultism%20in%20light%20of%20fractals%2C%20chaos%20theory%20and%20quantum%20mechanics.pdf

https://www.bourncreative.com/meaning-of-the-color-orange/

https://www.bourncreative.com/meaning-of-the-color-brown/

http://www.flowermeaning.com/daisy-flower-meaning/

https://exemplore.com/fortune-divination/What-your-fingerprints-say-about-you

http://www.ba-bamail.com/content.aspx?emailid=19599

https://www.theforestacademy.com/tree-knowledge/annual-growth-rings/#.XDdRWIyIahA

https://www.momtastic.com/webecoist/2011/05/02/lost-civilizations-12-societies-that-vanished-in-mystery/

Holy Need

Published January 9, 2019 by tindertender

Some may never understand, and of those that do, there will be a portion which attempt to silence the message.

They will ‘black list’ you, they will slander you and call you a conspiracy theorist, and those who are still under the hypnosis will believe them, and chime in … until they awaken. Then they will need to straighten out, in their own hearts, how they fought against you as you tried to help them.

Whatever you do, release that which is placed upon you … determine where you are in connection with your will, and then proceed accordingly.

This country, this world, needs you to bring forth your authentic uniqueness. This contribution which is wholly you, is Holy needed.

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