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Reaching Beyond Walls of Darkeness

Published February 20, 2018 by tindertender

I see you in a lighted room surrounded by dark walls.
Outside those dark walls is more light. 

Our Box

As human beings we find ourselves inside walls of darkness. You can think of it as your house, and if you do not have a house you will understand better, these walls are a creation made up of beliefs, perhaps instilled in you by other humans from your past, and also your present.

Breaking down these walls we see that we are entering the truth of life, we are light, living in light, and there are others who will do whatever they can to prevent you from seeing this … hence the walls, physical, and invisible.

Walls of doubt, fear, anger, jealousy, revenge, pain, heart break of all kinds … these are the mechanisms which hold us in this cage of darkness.

People have a very strong will. This will has been manipulated into thinking there isn’t anything other than the mechanisms which hold it inside the walls of darkness. Humanity has a strength beyond that hold, and ALL scenarios can be altered when this determination is put to work.

Release these things, do not allow them power over your life. You deserve to be united with the vast amount of light your were meant to thrive in, we all do.

A Word Of Caution

Published February 18, 2018 by tindertender

What will you buy today? What will you pay attention to?

Time to Pay Attention Words Clock Listen Hear Information

“Most of us are familiar with computers; they seem to run everything nowadays from our washing machines to the International Space Station. A computer is made up primarily of two things: hardware (the physical components such as the monitor, the keyboard, etc.), and the software (the nonphysical programs such as Microsoft Windows, Excel, etc.)

In a sense, a computer is roughly analogous to a human being: the hardware represents the body, and the software represents the mind. But there is something missing in this analogy, because until you plug your computer into the wall ~ that is, until you supply it with energy ~ both the hardware and the software are useless.

Similarly to the computer, neither your body nor mind would function without the energy that powers them.

This energy is what I affectionately refer to as your Inner Fire.

Your Inner Fire is the vital energy within you, the unseen force that gives life to your being. When you take a moment to stop, get quiet, and feel deep within yourself, on a level deeper than thought, you will find this energy waiting and powering you through every moment in your life.”
~ Awaken your Inner Fire, by Heatherash Amara

Change the endingThe energy we all have powering our personal lives is the most valuable thing we own. When we use it for discord, we flame the fire of harm and disaster which affects all life surrounding us, and like ripples it touches all of the other people whos energy is being used in this manner, it rushes over everything creating chaos. When we use it for peace, we flame the fire of care and compassion  which affects all life surrounding us and like ripples it touches all of the other people whos energy is being used in this manner, it flows over everything creating a sense of calm strength.

Time, although we do not own it and borrow it only, is our second precious resource. Within it is the water and foods for survival. When we waste time doing harmful things we contribute to the destruction we see prevalent in today’s world.

Breaking free from conditioning, we can determine for ourselves in the very heart of our being whether we truly wish to spend our energy and time fostering ruination or whether we prefer to foster the nurturing of the communal garden for the prospering of all life.

Dropping The Illusion

Published February 15, 2018 by tindertender

There is a phrase, “As above, so below.” People are waiting for God to bring Heaven to Earth. Little do they know that is their purpose here! It is they (we) who have taken on the task of doing just that.

It is easy to get caught up in the dirt of the world, the filth and the anger and the hate. It is easy to get our feelings hurt and then start the blame game and the retaliation. Many choose to make others ‘pay’ for what has been done to them. This is the programming of this world.

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Our mission, if you choose to believe it, is to create a world where people aren’t  judged by the color of their skin, or anything else for that matter, for that is the illusion created to keep the cycle of anger and pain going.

The energies robbed by wrong-doers must be reclaimed. They cannot be permitted to take the energetic impulses we need to utilize for the good of the world. It is best to walk away from drama, from abusers, from thieves and others, and focus intently on that which many of us wish to see in the world … Heaven on Earth. It is our responsibility.

Looking deep into the pit of our being, we can feel there is a greater purpose, one in which we play the hero. As children we may have played out this role in what parent and others called fantasy. However this was us letting people know the mission! It was beaten, coerced and forced from our minds as we molded into what now is.

Drop the illusion.
Forgive those who have wronged you.
Focus on healing self. Get back on track.
Time is of the essence.

 

Searching For Purpose In Life

Published February 14, 2018 by tindertender

Looking at a situation, we are able to determine what needs to be done in order to improve the workings of a thing. We evaluate, and then follow up with the steps it takes to make the desired change.

People often wonder what their purpose in life is. Wondering around in somewhat of a daze this is probably the most asked question.

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What if our birth here is no accident? What if we knew exactly the state of the world and where it was headed … what if we chose to come here at this time in order to make a difference, to make adjustments in the way things are in order to affect change that will alter the course of humanity, for all life on earth?

It is no easy task, it is not something the faint of heart decides to do. We came here knowing full well the dangers that awaited us, we knew we would face trials that might not be successfully passed. Even though it is extremely difficult to make it through this maze of harm and hurt, to overcome the self doubt imposed on us from childhood … here we are.

Those who wish to end life as we know it … that experience we have enjoyed at times in our own history … are working very diligently to do just that. It is our responsibility to counteract that destructive behavior.

All too often people are convinced that the way to make things better is through violence, through creating a destructive power so great that the ones holding the most destructive power would be the leader in peace.

It is comical, this logic.
It would be laughable were it not so deadly and dangerous.

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Institutional learning has taught very well how to follow orders, how to do as we are told. From early on we learn how to ‘stay within the lines’. It becomes natural to do the bidding of another as we age, and graduate into other realms of being. We forget what it is to think outside the box.

Even those who exercise their creative mind are still following the desired path of someone else. When did we lose the ability to determine what is good, and clean, and beneficial? When did we become so geared to function for the sake of money alone? It seems the lesson here has been that life without money is no life at all.

We see how whole sections of humanity are forced into extreme poverty and starvation, their lives manipulated in such a way that survival is near impossible. This breeds need, and is followed by aggressive behaviors where people just decide they’ll take what they want, forgetting completely the methods and tools another must have also, not caring for their life.

The compassion born in a man and a woman is stripped from them as they face these challenges they swore to change upon birth, upon entry to this world. Getting caught up in all the mess it is forgotten … we are here to assist each other, to lift each other up … not just the few who deem themselves mighty, but all people, all life.

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This sacred world we live in is under attack, we accepted the challenge of making it right again, yet that oath was forgotten. Do you remember now … is it coming back to you?

Stepping out from the pain of rejection and desire, we must learn to see the bigger picture … life is not just about us personally, it is about the whole. Until we see it, and begin to behave in a manner which recognizes this fact, change will be impossible.

All of humanity is under a spell of a sort. When it is recognized, people will understand that we cannot blame someone for  their rejection, or for speaking harshly to us, or even for being used as a tool of destruction.

Stepping out of the box and viewing life from a different angle we can see the truth of the matter, and then proceed according to original plan. Imagine what Inner You is saying right now …

Digging deep within

Soul Transfer Through Organ Transplant

Published February 14, 2018 by tindertender

Shinto – It can be difficult to get consent for organ donation from a Shinto family, because the religion views injuring a dead body as a serious crime.

Amaterasu_cave_cropKamishin, or, archaically, jin (神) is defined in English as “god”, “spirit”, or “spiritual essence”, all these terms meaning “the energy generating a thing”. Since the Japanese language does not distinguish between singular and plural, kami refers to the divinity, or sacred essence, that manifests in multiple forms. Rocks, trees, rivers, animals, places, and even people can be said to possess the nature of kami.

The wide variety of usage of the word kami can be compared to the Sanskrit Deva and the Hebrew Elohim, which also refer to God, gods, angels, or spirits.

We all know by now that life is something we cling to. Even in our most depressive states, even in the most painful portions of life, we cling to it. This can be described as a “hope that trauma will pass” and life will soon be bearable again.

human-soulWhen organs fail, or when a loved one dies, we have a desire for life to continue. And so there is an agreement made between the one who wished to live, and the family members who wish for some part of their loved one to continue living. Often, these organs are rejected in the transplant process, and sometimes accepted, with life long drug treatment to maintain the acceptance.

With the racism in the world, the hatred of other ethnicities, I am quite surprised at the willingness of someone who is ill to accept anothers organ into their body. After all, they do not really know what they are getting. Crazy how we have trouble living with each other while all are in body, but in the face of death, people literally take another into their own body.

I suppose this is a case, or cases, where people aren’t really aware of the deeper issues, they only see that there is possibility of keeping someone elses heart beating.

Many people during life go to therapy seeking ‘soul retrieval’. Throughout life, we leave bits and pieces of our spirit self with others, and it can often leave one feeling depleted, somewhat lifeless. There is the process of cutting cords and reclaiming ones self, a detaching.

Once we accept anothers body part, or a piece of our own is surgically implanted into another body, this is a bond which cannot be undone. The two are now one. Making decisions about organ donation without fully understanding this is irresponsible.

I’m curious about the real motives for this research and surgeries …

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When a loved one dies, a family may wish to donate their organs, not understanding that they have now made their loved ones incomplete … a portion of their soul has been taken from them. Perhaps it is desired because the family just can’t let go, or perhaps because they just aren’t informed.

In life, as much as we’d like to help others it is important to first help ourselves, for if we are not whole and healthy, we are no good to anyone. Does this rule of thumb also pertain to the afterlife? When should we say it is time to ‘let go’?

References:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shinto
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kami
http://www.medicaldaily.com/can-organ-transplant-change-recipients-personality-cell-memory-theory-affirms-yes-247498
https://curious-droid.com/54/5-cases-of-human-soul-transfers-after-organ-transplants/
https://www.facts-are-facts.com/article/spiritual-consequences-man-is-more-than-flesh-alone
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-558271/Can-really-transplant-human-soul.html

Time To Heal

Published February 13, 2018 by tindertender

Divinity, in my mind, is about respect, compassion and honor. It doesn’t force itself on anyone. Instead, it sits back and allows people to live their lives as they wish, waiting for the time when they will be in a position to kick back and dwell in the afterlife of their choosing, the world they create.

Become awareUnfortunately, there are many who live in a constant state of chaos and ill will. They spin hurt and harm wherever they go, in all of its forms. This is the world many create, and when the body quits them, they will do everything they can to escape their fate. This includes butting in on other humans lives, trying to find an escape route into something more pleasant.

This could be why so many are behaving in such a brash manner, being completely selfish, for they are under the influence of these others who have realized too late their error.

Humanity is equipped with a will so strong it can overcome all obstacles, ALL of them, yet they often choose to be embraced, and then to return the embrace, of ill will. This is no excuse for bad behavior.

The bulk of energy spent in life should be given to self, as one fortifies their own mind in ability to withstand these attacks, and come back to center, stronger than before. There’s a difference between caring for self, and being selfish.

Anger is a serious issue. I know this is true … personal experience has brought all kinds of it to my mind and life, leaking into the lives of those around me. I also know it is choice which allows the release of it. The human will is strong and determined, whatever it is applied to will be.

The fate of the world really does lie in our hands, in our determination. Pain and anger will cause a person to retaliate, often upon those who had nothing to do with the creation of their pain. Many times, the ones we think cause our pain or anger, have only set our triggers of an underlying issue. Until this is dealt with, all people we deal with will eventually flip a trigger, and we’ll swim in pain and anger. Not only personally, but it will be inflicted into the world, causing the same ol’ same ol’ crap we’ve seen, over and over in its cycle.

Time to heal_1Often it is the pity we have for those suffering which keeps us trapped in scenarios which are hurtful. The fact is, we are the most important factor in our lives. If we do not show sufficient compassion to our self, we will never be able to give proper care to anyone else … truth.

Here is the advice of one … people who suffer anger and pain ought to delve deep inside, find the cause and deal with it, heal it. Those who suffer at the hands of those in pain and anger … walk away, reclaim your energy and do not let it be used to flame the fire of this persons issue. Instead, harness it and use it to heal yourself.

Where attention goes, energy flows.
It’s time to starve out anger and pain.
It’s time to heal.

 

 

Stubborn ~ Willful ~ Human

Published February 12, 2018 by tindertender

From the approximate age of 4 or 5, I have been determined to make my own decisions, about what I would wear, and what I would do. I still remember the day I told my mother I would wear ‘this’ and not what she had planned for me. It snowballed from there.

Stubborn_3At the age of 15 I ‘got’ a boyfriend, who told me what to wear, what to do, and how to even wear my hair. At first I wanted to please him, but the more abusive he became, the more I hated this invisible thumb on my life, and I rebelled. He became more physical in his attempts to control me, and I fought back, intensely, having to leave town for he knew not when to stop and my very life was in danger.

This was only the beginning of understanding. You see, at first I thought it was only humankind that wanted to do manipulation, but now know that we are all just pawns, given a certain set of circumstances to test our reactions and our ability to handle stressful situations.

Stubborn_1There are others who hear not only what we say, but what we do not say as well … those thoughts we do not give audible words to. Not only that, they see our dreams as well. I know a man who thirty years ago told me he knew me better than I knew myself. I suppose it was true to a certain extent, however he still did not know my thoughts unless I told him, and he was not aware of my dreams.

These others, they know the three parts of a person, indeed, they know all about us, even those things we’ve forgotten. They know our waking verbal self, our waking non-verbal self, and our sleeping self. They watch, they listen, they discuss among each other our strengths and our weaknesses. They observe as we face our trials, and they see how we treat each other, in calm times, and in times of intense stress. Our hearts are known without any misconstrued stories.

mindful selfIn the silence of your mind are you working to build a compassionate life, or are you scheming the next steps in order to ‘pull one over’ on someone? Are you trying to be kind, or are you practicing some sort of revenge for perceived wrongs? All of these things do not go unseen, unknown.

Those who go through life without delving deep into their own being, projecting harm into the world, albeit mostly unconsciously, they will need to come back and try again, for they obviously haven’t got what it takes to merge with the whole which is in constant connection and awareness. Chaos does not work in a situation where they must be listened to at all times, not if one hopes to have a peaceful atmosphere.

And those ‘ones’ wish for peace. Which is why we face these trials. It is important to forgive, to release emotions which cause chaos in the mind and to practice calm responses and not extreme reactions which do more harm than good.

time bombJust yesterday I had to sever ties with a person who works very hard to create chaos in the world. I understand, for I was once an angry person who did the same. It is not something I choose to practice any longer though, it hasn’t been for nearly two decades. I instead wish to practice and see if I can be a person of peace, just as thoroughly as I was a person of chaos. It’s a personal challenge, and not done because ‘someone’s listening’. I honestly wish to see if I am as good at creating good with thoughts, words and actions as I was at creating harmful words, thoughts and actions.

Many people think God hears their prayers, when spoken and when thought. Yet these same people are in denial that He also hears everything else that they say and think, they believe that their actions go unseen unless they personally call in His attention. Or perhaps they think they have the freedom to behave as poorly as they wish for they ‘believe in a savior’ so have a ‘pass’ on bad behavior.

CreatorReality is, no one is without what mankind calls sin. No one. However, ALL of mankind has free will and the strength to become more than they were before, bearers of peace and healers of the world. They also have capacity to be destroyers of all that is good, and they can watch while that ‘good’ recovers and persists even through all that bullshit. Watch as true strength is seen in a continuation of forgiveness and release, watch as the sun shines down on their heads and they notice it, and relax into it. All the while chaos will stew and concoct plans for destroying this.

It is seen, observed, and discussed by those who are not seen by human eyes, by those who ultimately decided whether or not they wish to reside with us in the heavenly realms, out there in the multi-verse.

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