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Spontaneity, Life Surprises, And Our Future

Published August 25, 2017 by tindertender

DSCN0502Do I follow my heart and climb to the top of another waterfall? I already know where I would rather be and am certain my body will follow my mind, where to, remains to be seen.

The connection had with the earth assists us in our connection with each other. There is a great healing to be shared, in the silence, when we walk … energies touching, hearts pumping, lungs working as an upward hill is climbed.

Upward hills … these hills may not appear as such, yet they are there … in relationships, in our work life, in our housing, in our ability to feed ourselves in a healthy manner. We work at it, and yes, it can be difficult, we will often go without, yet we persist.

The connections we make along the way, with each other, will help bridge the gaps.

Person Using Magnifying Glass On Cut-out FiguresWe have been taught that we cannot trust each other, we have been taught that to remain separated is best for survival, and most of us have been performing rather well under these circumstances.

Now imagine what could be if we recognize personally, and help each other in learning, the bond that we share goes very deep. Remember the crisis’s that have occurred, remember how people band together to take care of each other, remember the great feats that are accomplished during these times.

Together we are better.
Every day, in every way.

The separation we have been living under will change. There will be those who desperately grasp onto what they believe to be their life line, and there will be those who understand that community, care, and genuine compassionate concern for, and sharing with, each other is the true life line. The latter will be the future, depending on how quickly we embrace it, the timeline will prove itself.

Let life surprise you. Let love embrace you. Learn to trust each other, carefully, participate in the rebuilding of the compassion in this world.

We have seen what governments have done to the people everywhere, how we’ve been exploited, used and murdered in the name of power and money and greed. These elements do not have the best interest of the hearts of humanity in mind, and only the exploited will be able to turn it around … by working together.

Human EnergyTake the energies and efforts which have been bought and sold for scraps, reclaim those same energies and efforts and apply them in fields and ways that you know will encompass good for all … step away from greed and death and being used for the benefit of the few.

This world, and the future of humanity and all life depend on your goodness ad charity. When you give to the whole, the whole gives back to you … imagine the return on your efforts!! The entirety will return to you much more than the greedy few.

Be the change.

12 Steps For Self Care

Published August 22, 2017 by tindertender

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We see everywhere we look people marching for this and for that, attempting to “change” other peoples minds about a different number of subjects.

The truth is, we have better control over changing our own heart and mind, and this is often the most avoided method of altering the world reality.

When we say, “So and so is this or that”, we ought to ask our self, “Am I this or that?” Only by doing this will we better understand that we, and they, are not so different, and the opportunity for change becomes greater.

It is near impossible to change the heart and mind of another, but it is absolutely possible, and a necessity, to look deep into our own heart and mind, shifting all behaviors that do not benefit us, or the whole.

Leading by example is the most effective way to alter the course of our collective future.

 

A Battle Is Not Needed To Win This Fight ~ Only A Steady Stream Of Love, One Drop At A Time

Published August 20, 2017 by tindertender

Years ago something happened to me, it took away the ability to have a personal relationship. I, at times, feel as though I have been robbed, that a thief came into my life and stripped this capacity from me. Sometimes I think it would be nice to share with someone, to be held … but truthfully, that is the extent of it, all of the other drama and energies spent, I now feel are better used elsewhere. So back and forth I go with this thought. Missing being close, and then realizing I am close to so much more now days instead.

DSCN0511I recently replied to a blog someone wrote about sex. They wrote that if you don’t get it, you lose the desire for it, you lose the ability to think clearly, blah blah blah. The response to my reply was pretty amazing … quite a few women stated that it sounded like “you can’t get it”. Well, I can, I simply am so over that shallow chasing of the elusive dream. Momentary (whether the evening, the year, or years) pleasure, and the compromising in order to ensure someone else has no complaint … argh!!! Please …

My ex-husband still lives here, and even he is kind of in my space. If I want to shout to the walls, or cry and howl at the moon, I must face his opinion and questions about whether I should get on medication. See, that little thing right there, is why I do not choose to have relationship. I do not live for someone else’s opinion on who I should be, or what I should be like.

That being said, I do miss the hugs. The church I attended in my last home town was great for that fact (one of the many great things). Every one hugged, it was a welcoming and a departure thing. I loved the connection and the freedom to hug someone without that “icky” uncomfortable, too close feeling.

I also recognize that things never stay the same.

Someday there will be another shift, I am hoping a GREAT BIG one!!! Paranoia over being touched has gone rampant. People feel afraid that if they allow a touch, they’re “asking for it”,  then there are those who feel they will “get it” if someone allows a hug, well, they only take privileges that are not granted.

DSCN0519This world is screwed up from the top down. This is how it works, yes … from the top down. We see it in corrupt governments imposing corrupt rules and regulations, we see it in our justice systems where the victim is further victimized and innocent people are punished, we see it in families which allow their children to be abused, and then we see it in ourselves, as bad habits which we may find difficult to break. My hope is that the cycle of all this drama and harm stops with this generation, Right Now.

If we all awaken to the fact that we have been playing rolls created by sick minds, and if we choose to step out and away, breaking free from this sinister game, and do the work to break these “habits”, it WILL change. However, only if we do the work, and look deep within our self to see where the connection has been broken.

Change does not happen in the fight to alter others beliefs. Change happens when the energies to do that fight are withdrawn and utilized for peace … peace in our own minds and lives. This then ripples out like that perfect rain drop when it falls on a body of water, touching other ripples caused by other rain drops. A battle is not needed to win this fight, only a steady stream of love, one drop at a time.

This is YOUR Power!

Published August 14, 2017 by tindertender

Show them how it is done.

There are many critics now days, in ALL areas of life. I have have received a private message from one who wants to “connect”, only so they could throw an abundance of foul insult and degrading rhetoric into words. Of course I did not accept, however it amazes me that this is the energy that this individual chooses to put out there.

When we find ourselves faced with a communication laced with profanity and insult, it is important to shut it down immediately. Do not give that language room in your mind. It can be difficult, for I myself have had the experience of being backed into a wall with someone physically in my face screaming these hurtful and harmful words, performing damaging deeds.

They are possessed with an evil that lurks in the ether, and truly, I do not think they even know this. When they come at you, hurting you, simply remember that it is your light and your inner strength they hate, and they will try to break you … do not let them.

Shine your light so bright! Smile at them when they are hurtful, delete the comment before reading the whole thing, take away the power of this crazy vulgar mess … for it is using YOUR power to hurt you, do not let them have it. It belongs to you, and you have been, and must continue, to use it bringing additional light into the world.

You have within you the power to change the world, and you are doing just that. These mean and hurtful comments and actions … the people who spew them out there like liquid dung, straight from the mouths and bodies … they know, they see your light, and it infuriates them. But you are strong, and no matter what comes your way, the light you shine will assist others in being brave enough to follow suit, for they too have this beautiful light within.

Show them how it is done. Practice. No one said it would be easy, but this is why you are here. Deep within you, you know this to be the truth.

Exquisite Healing

Published August 13, 2017 by tindertender

The day was a fortunate one, for the ocean took from us what it needed. The energies of the body seem to clear, leaving us calm, as though we have been massaged.

Blue Laced Agate is joined by purple hued beads, my best friend enjoying, as well as I, the beauty of this day. Everything is perfect.

I am surprised I am awake 3 hours after going to bed. I thought, surely, after today I would sleep through the night. Perhaps I haven’t given it fair effort.

Off I go, to dream of this heavenly earth, remembering the exquisite healing it gives to those who step into it, opening the senses fully.

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