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Hope For Accomplishment

Published December 18, 2018 by tindertender
Dirty Money

What do you hope to accomplish? I’m not fond of this, if it IS a game … and it must be, because you refuse to explain.

Why is it I cannot remember those AHA moments during a semi-sleep? Why can I not record my thoughts in a sub-conscious state? It doesn’t seem right that you have access to those inner kept secrets, when even I do not.

What is it with all the talk of blasphemy and sacrilege? You really should consider releasing the need, or ‘habit’ of fear mongering.

When you put people in a little box surrounded by fear of failure or rejection, you will forever be surrounded by people who attempt to make themselves small. Perhaps this is what makes you feel big.

Have you ever heard that a king, or boss, is only as good, or as strong as his ‘team’? If you continuously look to create subservient people in your surroundings, your situation will lack strength, the whole of it.

If people do as you say because you provide them with what they need (usually the need is created by the one who longs to manipulate), none of the actions come from a place of true empowerment. This is why kingdom after kingdom falls.

The ‘base’ must be made strong. Without it, failure will happen, again and again. Shift mind-set from one of need, to one of self-reliance, empowerment, and a becoming as family, to the whole. ALL working to see that all others have enough, are safe, and motivated … not out of fear, greed or need of power, but out of a peaceful sharing and genuine caring.

A person is never ‘ready’. You just do it and learn as you go. This is how things are done. Otherwise, you’ll wait and before long, it will be too late to even try.

The fight is beginning to be something else. The argument isn’t an argument. Stating facts does not mean it’s a fight, it simply is what it is and truth cannot be denied. Of course that doesn’t mean people won’t try and spin stories to try and refute the truth.

In today’s world, the longer we know someone, the more willing we are to look past some of the hurtful things they do, that we do. So immersed in the experience it becomes difficult to see some of the things that are done without thought or care for others. Stepping back, away from situations, observing quietly, we can see people being who they are at heart, forgetting, or not really caring about creating a good impression upon others, or leaving a lasting impression of goodness in the world.

What is your energetic imprint?

It is a sick society which takes credit for other peoples work and ideas. Give credit where credit is due. Do so joyfully! Imagine a world which is full of people pointing out the great accomplishments and abilities of others. Not because they have to, or because they are looking for ‘brownie points’, but because it is amazing what people are capable of! There are so many wonderful creations of good, and benefit for all living beings.

Do you think it is possible to be free?

Hitting a hard ‘reset’ in life is not the easiest thing to do. Yet, for most of humanity it is a much needed, a desperately needed, reality. It will cause many ‘short circuits’ and many lives lost. The human mind has been in darkness for a very long time. Reset will be painful. It will not be pretty. It will look and feel like chaos. The world will appear to have gone mad.

“Recognize that sometimes things we don’t want to do must be done.”

Nothing good is born out of untruth. Honesty automatically grows goodness, unless it is a blankety blank, blank, blank.

I’m not much for telling people what to do, so … it’s up to you.

The Turning Tide

Published November 27, 2018 by tindertender

Many of us, if not all at one point or another, complain about our jobs, our necessary tasks in daily living, our responsibilities. It is clear that the excitement behind these opportunities has been lost.

Coming to the earth we have choice in whether we will assist each other in advancement, or inhibit the progress of each other. It is apparent that most people choose who they support and who they choose to destroy.

It is incredible to me how the human mind sees some as more deserving and others as less, I suppose it is due to the reasoning that some advance our agendas while others are perceived to deter progression.

The question becomes: what is true progression?

There are many ‘takers’ in this world who refuse to contribute to the success of the whole. These are usually the ones this struggle is with. It may not be their ‘fault’ as they may have come from an extremely poor circumstance where the only way they could get enough was to take it. Often hard work isn’t sufficient for success.

There will always be someone who will put their thumb on the advancement of others. It could be because they have seen the suffering and will do anything to prevent it in their own lives, even if it means forcing others to stay in lack.

How do we bridge the gap? How do we understand, fully, that ALL life is deserving of having enough? While some amass wealth beyond their needs, hoarding it as though they fear it may be taken, making sure that if it is they will have reserves, they turn a blind eye to those will fewer opportunities of self sufficiency.

Compassion for others seems to have taken a back seat to care for self. And it should, but not to the extent of standing idly by, turning a blind eye to starvation of people and animals, toxic dumping and poisoning of the earth, waters, and air. Self care does not equate to selfishness.

During this cycle of survival it appears many hearts have been seemingly irreversibly damaged. Let us hope that it is not irreversible, and that there is still possibility of healing for all.

When it comes down to it, fear has been the base of motivation, even surpassing greed and need for power… for at their base, is where fear lives. Even the one people refer to as Satan, or the Devil, operates from fear… fear of being under someone else’s thumb, fear of being powerless. As crazy as it seems …

I once asked my mother what she thought our purpose on earth is. Her response? Simply to survive. This made me very sad as I thought about her struggles and suffering.

My hope is that when we come out of the cycle of surviving, we will enter a cycle of thriving … for all who dare to enter this physical form.

I look forward to seeing humanity show their potential for love and care, equal to, or greater than, their capacity for selfishness and destruction.

This vision I have is what drives me in the honing of my own mind and actions. It is a reality which requires constant attention and effort. It is obvious myself, and all others, are no where near the end goal of peace for all. I dream of the day when, miraculously, all hearts will be mended, healed, and constant joy returns to life. I long for the day when we look at each other and see the amazing qualities we share.

Faith in its nearness keeps me hopeful, and watchful for signs of the turning, of the rebirth of the incredible loving spirit which is LIFE.

What Are You Made Of?

Published October 12, 2018 by tindertender

For us to find the beginnings of true peace and to extend a compassionate hand to others, we must start with compassion for ourselves. Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Compassion for another’s situation is important. Consider another persons point of view and choose connection rather than separation.

It’s time to think big. You are a star in your own right. There are unlimited possibilities. It is fine not to know every detail before proceeding. Mystery is a natural part of life. Share the infinite and expand accordingly. Think big and set positive intentions.

You are creative in every way. There are no barriers to constant, consistent creation. Allow yourself to create in joy, not because of pressure. Connect more deeply with the earth.

Do not give up; there is hope yet. Hope is a life changing emotion. Without it, people literally die. It is important to understand that hope requires some action. If we decide to co-create with our chosen deities and truly have faith in this process, we will not need to ask for a miracle, because we are working toward what we want with assistance. It is important not to just hope for change but to hope from a place of good intention, and to act.

Allow what you no longer need to be destroyed or reduced. Build your emotional authenticity. We aren’t always taught how to deal with sadness, anger, depression, or even jealousy, but they aren’t strange or unnatural emotions. In fact, everyone feels them at some point or another, but it is how we express them that makes the difference. In accepting these emotions and expressing them in a healthy way, we are able to release them and move on.

We are all irresistible in our own ways. Enjoyment is a natural part of life. Center yourself and be confident among chaos. External beauty is not enough ~ it is confidence that truly creates beauty.

Justice will be done for the good of all. Take responsibility for your actions. The chaos in life will end; natural order will be restored.

You are enough. Build your self-esteem from the inside out. It’s your turn to shine! Be the sunshine in your own life! If your strong, healthy self-esteem tips over into arrogance or narcissism, it is not true balance. In this world full of celebrities who are famous just for being famous, it is not surprising that many people believe that self-esteem and self-worth come from the outside in, from the admiration of others. Take the admiring people away, and if there is no solid core of self-worth, there is little left.

Trust that you have enough. Ask and you will receive. It is time to prune back the dead wood in order to grow. Nourish yourself and the earth. When we struggle to let go, we may feel stagnant for a time. When circumstances seem grim, we can catastrophize what is going wrong and easily overlook the things in our lives that are doing well. Sometimes things need to clear out to make room for another. Tough decisions need to be made at times. If brave enough to leave behind that which no longer serves highest good and move naturally, freely, in the direction we really want to go, the fruit of our labors is wildly born.

It is time for change, and it will be positive. Respect your own natural cycle. Be mindful of seasonal changes and go with the flow taking these into account in your diet and activity level. Life cycles are natural. There are times to feel introverted and extroverted, energetic and restful, happy and sad ~ none of these is better than the other. Take time to connect with your personal cycles and you can expect to reap many benefits.

Don’t expect yourself to be happy just because others are, or ready for the same steps at the same time. Let your body and mind experience your life naturally and without expectation based on someone else’s cycles. Pressuring yourself or others to want the same things at the same time isn’t healthy or respectful to your true self.

Are you crazy? No … you’re experiencing the cycle of your life, unique, and yet similar to all other life. It will be easier should you embrace these cycles, rather than fight them, or try to alter them to conform with others that you may feel are more ‘normal’. There is nothing more ‘normal’ than your own cycle and rhythm, embrace it … in all it’s pain and glory. This is your dance. Honor it.

 

They Don’t Really Care About Us

Published October 5, 2018 by tindertender

Wishing it were different doesn’t make it so. Fighting for change won’t make it so. You can’t turn a dark heart light if it is not willing. If people are too wrapped up in money, power, and ‘doing as they are told’, nothing of the current system will change … until hearts change.

Hopefully, they will …

Nurture and Grow

Published September 26, 2018 by tindertender

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You are a keeper of the planet.  You are adept in the use of your creative/spiritual energy. You have gained access to power. Your challenge is to handle it humbly, considering the good of all. Use your power to acknowledge the Source, to herald the dawn of a peaceful age, to uplift those who cannot yet see. Use your power to heal, to love unconditionally. This is the prime of your energy. You must not deny self, but merely find the right channel for expanding.

Pay attention to ‘life’ all around you … those walking, those flying, those crawling. Watch their seasons, and learn from their behaviors. Honor them, as well as yourself. Give yourself time alone with the quiet of the wind. Blend with the waters and the foods the earth provides, be one with this amazing life. Nurture the young ones, for they will one day be nurturers of you. Discern between those playing falsely, and those living in truth. Be keen on the energetic output of self and others. Balance the forces that swim in your arena, get to know them, move them about, settle them when they uprise. Respect the ancestors, the elders, for they have already walked this journey and have much to teach. Be willing to listen.

How Would I Live If … ?

Published September 25, 2018 by tindertender

In this world there is so much chaos, it is difficult to get in touch with our inner self, our higher self, and to listen to what is there.

I recently treated myself to a ‘float’ in a deprivation tank. It was 80 minutes long and time ceased to exist. It’s amazing how it just seems to stop when the senses are not bombarded with outside stimulus.

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As I lay there in a shallow pool of water with 8,000 lbs of epson salt, gravity had no power over me, my mind was still with the exception of silent prayers as violet light pulsed in the darkness.

St. Germaine is said to be the carrier of the violet flame of healing, and I choose to believe that is exactly what was, and is, taking place … a great healing.

https://www.summitlighthouse.org/saint-germain/

My recent aura photo is quite yellow! There seems to be a bit of concern over whether I’m ‘grounded’, I can tell you that there is much happening ‘behind the scenes’.

There are many theories behind the meaning of this … here is what some say …

“Aura colors are connected with divinity, aestheticism and spirituality. Yellow halo is considered as an active ‘brow chakra’. It is considered to be ruling the solar plexus or third chakra. It is the source of core energy and exists between navel and ribs in an individual’s body. A clear yellow aura circled around head in reflection of spiritual advancement. Yellow aura is a powerful denotation of religiousness, spirituality and enlightenment. It creates a sensation of brightness and warmth. The yellow aura around Buddha is a reflection of this enlightenment, spiritual success and joyful detachment from everything. Jesus, being encircled by yellow halo, emblems this divinity.”

YELLOW ~ Pertains to the spleen and life energy. It is the color of awakening, optimism, easy-going nature, inspiration and intelligence.

SHADES OF YELLOW ~ Pale Yellow – psychic and spiritual awareness, optimism, hopefulness, positivity. Bright Yellow – fear of losing control, respect, power struggles and control personally and in business. Clear Metallic Gold – spirituality activated, inspirational awakening.

Fascinating, really …

So the question remains, “How would I live if I actually listened to and followed the wisdom of my heart, mind and body?”

It is time to be still and get to the ‘heart’ of it.

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