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A Great Healing

Published March 2, 2019 by tindertender

Guardians of the Earth, it is time to play an active role in protecting and preserving the Wild and the Green by being aware of, and limiting impact on the natural world. This world is a gift … tread gently, with care, and walk with love.

Wisdom is born from seeking the lesson in all experiences. It is born from the awareness that all things are connected, and that all happens for a reason … even when the reason remains a mystery. Listen to your internal voice as well as the human and non-human messengers who come and go. Let yourself be inspired to explore unknown pathways.

Fear can be big or small. Some fear is a reminder to be cautious, others are shadows that have been made real and given substance which only serve to restrict and limit. Shine a light upon them and see them for what they are.

Balance IS possible.

Snow Day ~ Waiting On A Savior, Or Being One?

Published February 8, 2019 by tindertender

The news is we are finally going to get snow here in the PNW. I look forward to it. It’s going to be beautiful. I also hope that the houseless population will have shelter during this time, and food, and water, and access to toilet facilities.

It amazes me how those who are ‘in charge’ of the cost of housing are only now having limits put on them as to how high they can raise these fees. It is greed which is tearing apart the fabric of society, by perpetually causing scarcity and need.

I do not understand how so many people are still not aware what they put into this world is what they shall receive. Perhaps they have not had to suffer … yet. It is coming, it always does.

There are things which make the body go, and the heart, compassion and care. There are also things which end sanity, seemingly to obliterate the mind. All can end, yet soul and spirit remain … or do they?

There may be technique known by some on harvesting consciousness. Is this the end of freedom for soul and spirit? Are they ‘caged’ or merely ‘absorbed’ by another, or others?

The idea of there being a protector is a wish, and also a hope which may have long ago been given up on. In life we learn to do for ourselves, for apparently doing for each other has been bred out of humanity in many areas. Is this a goal of the elite?

Are people ready to be their own ‘controllers’? Or are their emotional strings still being manipulated by others in order to obtain a certain reaction or response? Sometimes those who speak of protecting or love only do so to maintain the hook into the energetic, emotional, and mental fields. This is not conducive to freedom. It is a lie.

I tell myself to be positive, positive, positive. I’d like to keep it that way. Yet simultaneously, I think that if all hell is going to break loose, we ought to step aside and let it. By attempting to contain it, it grows, building pressure until it erupts. It is plain that the things we fight against grow stronger. The energy we pour forth into this fight is used against us, so, like Bruce Lee stated, “Be like water my friend”.

If people, or someone outside this body has plans to wrap this up and bring peace to mind, world, and relations, let it be. The waiting seems to be endless … and perhaps this is because it is WE who are to do this, ourselves, together. And it is we who have designated this task to ‘someone else’. It is plain responsibility remains with us through inaction.

How to prevent mind from sinking into the pit of darkness … how to, instead, build a brighter moment? PING PONG to and fro, forever it seems. What are you tools? How often do you practice with them?

There will always be those that cling to you. There will always come a time when the need to shake them off occurs (and there will always be those who need to do the same in regard our self). Hence, alone time. Sacred time, to be with self, higher self, and the Divine. These that cling may not always be present in the way you might imagine. They are sometimes hidden from view, but attached just the same.

Choices: To withstand the pressure, to shift energetic imprints and lighten the load, or to shine on and push aside all wannabe influencers.

We do not want to be who others think we are. We hold on to our uniqueness and wish to be honored, just as those who wish for us to mold to their will do. Personally, I do not wish to conform to another’s pre-fabricated reality they have built for me. They can keep it for themselves.

The Line We Walk

Published February 3, 2019 by tindertender

Every single person has a shadow side, and a side dwelling in light. Whether they turn his way or that, both will be upon them at the same time in equal portion.

While some feed the shadow, and some feed the light, both are still upon them equally. In the end it will be the one they’ve built greater relationship with that will determine their state of consciousness.

Do you choose Heaven or Hell? Joy vs Anger? Gladness vs Madness?

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life.

“A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy.

“It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”

The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

This reality has been known for centuries. When people stop listening to wisdom, or caring one way or the other … then there will be serious need for someone(s) to step in and force a change. If humans cannot govern their own minds and actions, taking care not to harm other life … then they have proven they are not worthy of the freedoms bestowed upon them.

Hope For Accomplishment

Published December 18, 2018 by tindertender
Dirty Money

What do you hope to accomplish? I’m not fond of this, if it IS a game … and it must be, because you refuse to explain.

Why is it I cannot remember those AHA moments during a semi-sleep? Why can I not record my thoughts in a sub-conscious state? It doesn’t seem right that you have access to those inner kept secrets, when even I do not.

What is it with all the talk of blasphemy and sacrilege? You really should consider releasing the need, or ‘habit’ of fear mongering.

When you put people in a little box surrounded by fear of failure or rejection, you will forever be surrounded by people who attempt to make themselves small. Perhaps this is what makes you feel big.

Have you ever heard that a king, or boss, is only as good, or as strong as his ‘team’? If you continuously look to create subservient people in your surroundings, your situation will lack strength, the whole of it.

If people do as you say because you provide them with what they need (usually the need is created by the one who longs to manipulate), none of the actions come from a place of true empowerment. This is why kingdom after kingdom falls.

The ‘base’ must be made strong. Without it, failure will happen, again and again. Shift mind-set from one of need, to one of self-reliance, empowerment, and a becoming as family, to the whole. ALL working to see that all others have enough, are safe, and motivated … not out of fear, greed or need of power, but out of a peaceful sharing and genuine caring.

A person is never ‘ready’. You just do it and learn as you go. This is how things are done. Otherwise, you’ll wait and before long, it will be too late to even try.

The fight is beginning to be something else. The argument isn’t an argument. Stating facts does not mean it’s a fight, it simply is what it is and truth cannot be denied. Of course that doesn’t mean people won’t try and spin stories to try and refute the truth.

In today’s world, the longer we know someone, the more willing we are to look past some of the hurtful things they do, that we do. So immersed in the experience it becomes difficult to see some of the things that are done without thought or care for others. Stepping back, away from situations, observing quietly, we can see people being who they are at heart, forgetting, or not really caring about creating a good impression upon others, or leaving a lasting impression of goodness in the world.

What is your energetic imprint?

It is a sick society which takes credit for other peoples work and ideas. Give credit where credit is due. Do so joyfully! Imagine a world which is full of people pointing out the great accomplishments and abilities of others. Not because they have to, or because they are looking for ‘brownie points’, but because it is amazing what people are capable of! There are so many wonderful creations of good, and benefit for all living beings.

Do you think it is possible to be free?

Hitting a hard ‘reset’ in life is not the easiest thing to do. Yet, for most of humanity it is a much needed, a desperately needed, reality. It will cause many ‘short circuits’ and many lives lost. The human mind has been in darkness for a very long time. Reset will be painful. It will not be pretty. It will look and feel like chaos. The world will appear to have gone mad.

“Recognize that sometimes things we don’t want to do must be done.”

Nothing good is born out of untruth. Honesty automatically grows goodness, unless it is a blankety blank, blank, blank.

I’m not much for telling people what to do, so … it’s up to you.

The Turning Tide

Published November 27, 2018 by tindertender

Many of us, if not all at one point or another, complain about our jobs, our necessary tasks in daily living, our responsibilities. It is clear that the excitement behind these opportunities has been lost.

Coming to the earth we have choice in whether we will assist each other in advancement, or inhibit the progress of each other. It is apparent that most people choose who they support and who they choose to destroy.

It is incredible to me how the human mind sees some as more deserving and others as less, I suppose it is due to the reasoning that some advance our agendas while others are perceived to deter progression.

The question becomes: what is true progression?

There are many ‘takers’ in this world who refuse to contribute to the success of the whole. These are usually the ones this struggle is with. It may not be their ‘fault’ as they may have come from an extremely poor circumstance where the only way they could get enough was to take it. Often hard work isn’t sufficient for success.

There will always be someone who will put their thumb on the advancement of others. It could be because they have seen the suffering and will do anything to prevent it in their own lives, even if it means forcing others to stay in lack.

How do we bridge the gap? How do we understand, fully, that ALL life is deserving of having enough? While some amass wealth beyond their needs, hoarding it as though they fear it may be taken, making sure that if it is they will have reserves, they turn a blind eye to those will fewer opportunities of self sufficiency.

Compassion for others seems to have taken a back seat to care for self. And it should, but not to the extent of standing idly by, turning a blind eye to starvation of people and animals, toxic dumping and poisoning of the earth, waters, and air. Self care does not equate to selfishness.

During this cycle of survival it appears many hearts have been seemingly irreversibly damaged. Let us hope that it is not irreversible, and that there is still possibility of healing for all.

When it comes down to it, fear has been the base of motivation, even surpassing greed and need for power… for at their base, is where fear lives. Even the one people refer to as Satan, or the Devil, operates from fear… fear of being under someone else’s thumb, fear of being powerless. As crazy as it seems …

I once asked my mother what she thought our purpose on earth is. Her response? Simply to survive. This made me very sad as I thought about her struggles and suffering.

My hope is that when we come out of the cycle of surviving, we will enter a cycle of thriving … for all who dare to enter this physical form.

I look forward to seeing humanity show their potential for love and care, equal to, or greater than, their capacity for selfishness and destruction.

This vision I have is what drives me in the honing of my own mind and actions. It is a reality which requires constant attention and effort. It is obvious myself, and all others, are no where near the end goal of peace for all. I dream of the day when, miraculously, all hearts will be mended, healed, and constant joy returns to life. I long for the day when we look at each other and see the amazing qualities we share.

Faith in its nearness keeps me hopeful, and watchful for signs of the turning, of the rebirth of the incredible loving spirit which is LIFE.

What Are You Made Of?

Published October 12, 2018 by tindertender

For us to find the beginnings of true peace and to extend a compassionate hand to others, we must start with compassion for ourselves. Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Compassion for another’s situation is important. Consider another persons point of view and choose connection rather than separation.

It’s time to think big. You are a star in your own right. There are unlimited possibilities. It is fine not to know every detail before proceeding. Mystery is a natural part of life. Share the infinite and expand accordingly. Think big and set positive intentions.

You are creative in every way. There are no barriers to constant, consistent creation. Allow yourself to create in joy, not because of pressure. Connect more deeply with the earth.

Do not give up; there is hope yet. Hope is a life changing emotion. Without it, people literally die. It is important to understand that hope requires some action. If we decide to co-create with our chosen deities and truly have faith in this process, we will not need to ask for a miracle, because we are working toward what we want with assistance. It is important not to just hope for change but to hope from a place of good intention, and to act.

Allow what you no longer need to be destroyed or reduced. Build your emotional authenticity. We aren’t always taught how to deal with sadness, anger, depression, or even jealousy, but they aren’t strange or unnatural emotions. In fact, everyone feels them at some point or another, but it is how we express them that makes the difference. In accepting these emotions and expressing them in a healthy way, we are able to release them and move on.

We are all irresistible in our own ways. Enjoyment is a natural part of life. Center yourself and be confident among chaos. External beauty is not enough ~ it is confidence that truly creates beauty.

Justice will be done for the good of all. Take responsibility for your actions. The chaos in life will end; natural order will be restored.

You are enough. Build your self-esteem from the inside out. It’s your turn to shine! Be the sunshine in your own life! If your strong, healthy self-esteem tips over into arrogance or narcissism, it is not true balance. In this world full of celebrities who are famous just for being famous, it is not surprising that many people believe that self-esteem and self-worth come from the outside in, from the admiration of others. Take the admiring people away, and if there is no solid core of self-worth, there is little left.

Trust that you have enough. Ask and you will receive. It is time to prune back the dead wood in order to grow. Nourish yourself and the earth. When we struggle to let go, we may feel stagnant for a time. When circumstances seem grim, we can catastrophize what is going wrong and easily overlook the things in our lives that are doing well. Sometimes things need to clear out to make room for another. Tough decisions need to be made at times. If brave enough to leave behind that which no longer serves highest good and move naturally, freely, in the direction we really want to go, the fruit of our labors is wildly born.

It is time for change, and it will be positive. Respect your own natural cycle. Be mindful of seasonal changes and go with the flow taking these into account in your diet and activity level. Life cycles are natural. There are times to feel introverted and extroverted, energetic and restful, happy and sad ~ none of these is better than the other. Take time to connect with your personal cycles and you can expect to reap many benefits.

Don’t expect yourself to be happy just because others are, or ready for the same steps at the same time. Let your body and mind experience your life naturally and without expectation based on someone else’s cycles. Pressuring yourself or others to want the same things at the same time isn’t healthy or respectful to your true self.

Are you crazy? No … you’re experiencing the cycle of your life, unique, and yet similar to all other life. It will be easier should you embrace these cycles, rather than fight them, or try to alter them to conform with others that you may feel are more ‘normal’. There is nothing more ‘normal’ than your own cycle and rhythm, embrace it … in all it’s pain and glory. This is your dance. Honor it.

 

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