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Elder’s Meditation 9-12-19

Published September 12, 2019 by tindertender

“If you get troubled, go and sit by the river. The flowing water will take your troubles away.”


Sometimes we get mixed up and we don’t know what to do. Go to the river or creek. Take your sage and tobacco; sit and be still. Talk to the water, offer tobacco and the healing water will take your problems downstream. Give thanks.

Great Spirit, heal my mind today, let me see love.

All For The Love Of It

Published September 4, 2019 by tindertender

Have you ever considered that having aced time and space again and again and again, you’re here this time simply for the love of the game?

Just to smell the dirt?

To lend a hand?

Give comfort?

And maybe for old times’ sake, to manifest a Carefully laid out agenda like it was a morning cup of coffee, even though you’re way past having to prove anything?


I do,

The Universe

Letting It Go

Published August 27, 2019 by tindertender

There are times we do not understand each other. We may think” You’re a crazy conspiracy theorist!” and when we discover the truth of what they spoke we fell humbled, embarrassed, and maybe ashamed if we treated them harshly for speaking what was truth for them.

At this point, the embarrassment of the past may prohibit us from apologizing, admitting we did not understand, but now do.

Yet we must apologize, mend broken relationships, and move toward harmony.

There are many things in this world which are half-truths, designed to separate and pit us against one another.

It is necessary to investigate before criticizing, and if we still do not fully agree, at least honor our fellow being from the space we are in, showing respect for the space they currently find themselves in.

In this way, we can properly learn from each other, becoming more than we were before.

The Ring Finger Program

Published August 23, 2019 by tindertender

The human body is a bioelectric energy processor that works on electromagnetic current. This current is coming in to the body from the aether as well as coming in from the foods we eat.

In fact, the right hand is the energy transmitter, and the left hand is the energy receiver.

When you place your hands together, your electric current runs down your right arm, out of your right hand, into your left hand, back up your left arm and then back to your heart, where it starts its journey all over again.

The epicenter of the left hand energy receiver is the fourth finger, or what you call a “ring” finger. It is connected directly to the immune system of the body. In fact, the ring finger is associated with Apollo, the sun god, one of your captors.

Perhaps he knows something about this finger you don’t know. And maybe even about the ring you are placing on it? Just a guess.

The fourth finger of the left hand is connected to the pelvic floor, and is the meridian of the liver which gives a person patience, serenity, hope and vision for the future and is called the “triple warmer” in sacred spiritual teachings.

It rules the immune system and the DNA cells of the body, not to mention is the RECEIVER meridian of your energy flow, meaning it is the most sensitive acting force of the human body when it comes to moderating and modulating the human functions and health.

Gold is a deadly poison to human physical bodies. To reptilian bodies coursing with blue blood, it is part of the secret of immortal life when it is powdered and ionized, and that is why it is the number one most important natural resource on earth.

The Luciferians stationed on Nibiru can aerosol it into their atmosphere, so they can live in perfect health and “forever” as long as they are in manifestation.

They also wear gold jewelry here on earth, and you emulate them because usually they are the wealthiest ones alive. So your wedding band is gold.

Now that you have heavy metal poison leaching directly into the one most important energetic meridian of the human body on your ring finger, you can expect that gold to disrupt the organic flow of the aether coming into your body.

Plus it is directly feeding the liver and immune system with toxins, removing your patience, your serenity, hope and vision for the future.

Gold is radioactive. That means Radon.

It is a fundamental sub particle of Bismuth which is a known radioactive carcinogen which has been found in dozens or hundreds of products in courts of law to cause cancer.

But because gold is so “precious” and has been since Sumer-Ur and Egyptian times, it, along with silver and other “precious metals” found on the periodic scale (every single one atomic elements of Bismuth), it is something science simply doesn’t talk about.

But the atomic elements are there:

“Gold-198 (198Au) is a radioactive isotope of gold. It undergoes beta decay to stable 198Hg with a half-life of 2.697 days. This isotope has also found use in nuclear weapons research and as a RADIOACTIVE TRACER in hydrological research.”

There are no metals that are safe for humans to wear other than possibly surgical stainless steel. Otherwise they have all been reduced through Redox processing that removes all the oxygen from their elements.

This turns them into cation ions that continually draw in energy to them and then dispense it into the aether. Which means like a vacuum they draw out the oxygen you are trying to get into your body through photoreactive elements we call magnesium or iron.

Magnesium is secretly oxygen and therefore secretly orgon bioelectric (Cold Fusion) energy and is not just similar-to, but has exactly the same elemental structure as healthy blood cells. Without oxygen it turns Dextrorotation cationic (catatonic) and goes into shut down.

-mission guide


Published August 23, 2019 by tindertender

Photo by Genava Leigh
Written by Maria Palumbo

If you are finding yourself in painful situations with a romantic partner, over and over, feeling emotionally exhausted, sad, and frustrated, there is a KINK here for feeling/being abused, hurt, For domination, submission. You just need a healthy way to scratch that kink, without having to create chaos in your relationship.

There are HEALTHY ways of getting that itch scratched and not so healthy ways.

You can create hell. Really stir shit up, to get attention. Or, you can create a container with full consent, about how you can “abuse” each-other. Without it ever having to negatively impact your emotional well-being or the well-being of others around you.

Or you know. Break up. And save yourself and everyone else the agony.

If you are leaning more towards owning your shadowy desires and staying in relationship with your partner, know how to practice kink.

Recently I created a membership on Fetlife, hoping to find an intellectual and emotionally mature community of people who understand consent, know how to build trust, and do not use kink as a way to mask trauma (or continue to traumatize themselves).

What I found was mostly objectification, unsafe s*x practices, and an inability to communicate, from mostly numb people. I found people who hold their KINKS dear, and then the people in their lives, including their partners, fall second. Treating people as tools for kinks. This can happen among people with trauma who are not actively working on healing it. As kink CAN be a great tool for survivors of trauma, to heal and embody power that they did not once have, if used properly.

Kink is not just for people who have had trauma, it is for everyone to move through and own all parts of themselves. The pitfalls of practicing kink can be the fact that it is re-traumatizing, numbing, and risky, if it is not done in full ownership of personal power, agency, and self-respect.

I saw my own desire for kink play out in a shadowy way with many of the partners I was attracted to, as my husband and I opened our marriage. People who would forget me, not prioritize me, want to hide that we were together. People that would break our agreements, and then get angry with me when I was hurt. People who I would let talk me into unprotected s*x (because it was an unconscious kink of mine to push boundaries and be dangerous). People who did not want to build relationship, but pretended they did to get s*x (and I knew, deep down, they were pretending). People that were not impressed by me, and could treat me as a thing attached to a v*gina. I noticed I needed a level of cruelty, in order to be turned on. I actually LIKED that I had to call my partners out, to emotionally connect with me. As emotionally PRESENT partners brought on a whole new level of vulnerability and presence, that I was not yet ready for.

Though power play is fun, we can get lost in it and disassociate if we ALWAYS choose emotionally cold s*x over emotionally in tune intimacy. And power play is not actually void of intimacy, it must be built on it. Otherwise, it is just another tool for hiding. We can even associate disassociation with pleasure (because of how we reacted in sexual trauma) and then see s*x with a partner that treats us as a FULL human being, as boring and limiting.

It is important if you are practicing kink, to personally vet your partners for:

– emotional intelligence

– healthy sex practices

– respect for you and your other partners

– the ability to move slow and at a pace that works for you, so you don’t fly out of your body

– people who have and continue to do their own healing around kink, outside of the bedroom

– people who will communicate to you directly about their s*x practices and any risky sex they might have elsewhere

– people who channel their kink to situations that are in full CONSENT

And always do your healing outside of the bedroom. As it illuminates what is really going on, everywhere else.

To your total s*xual freedom.

Energetic Exercise For Transformation

Published August 22, 2019 by tindertender

Written by Xalos@Turboxyde

For those of you who may feel called to connect with this intention and co-create a better outcome for all: Typhoon Bailu is headed into an already soaked area of the world (Taiwan/China) and the storm may produce deadly conditions. Meanwhile in Brazil and surrounding areas of the rainforest, fires are consuming swaths of land and environmental conditions aren’t stabilizing fast enough and some areas are out of control. These two polarities need to be balanced within the Earth’s Electromagnetic Field and our consciousness is able to assist!

If you desire to support, all you need to do is to pray/meditate intensely for a few moments and connect your awareness with these two locations on the planet. To do so, sit down and begin to clear your mind and bring your body into balance by using the breath. As you inhale draw energy from inside and around your body, your heart, the Earth, the Sun, the Cosmos. Focus this energy into your Heart and see your Biofield expanding with every exhale, becoming larger and larger. After a few moments, or several minutes (depending on your practice) begin to move your consciousness to the area of the planet where Typhoon Bailu is swirling. See it, feel it… enter the eye of the storm and stand as a column of light in the center. Reach with your hands outward into the storm and gather the energy and pull it inward by visualizing and focusing your breath on the actions you see in your minds eye. Allow the energy to be stored in your biofield and when you feel you have gathered enough, carry this energy to Amazon and begin distributing it amongst the fires in the rainforest.

The only intention you should have is to become a conduit of unconditional love for the energy to discharge safely from one polarity to the next. Set the intention to allow the Earth to control the rate at which this transfer happens so that no being is harmed in this process.

You may then return to your location of the planet and “ground” your energy back to your body and into the Earth with the intention to harmonize, heal and protect all. Use the breath to focus, use the mind’s eye to see and use the heart to feel. If you practice QiGong or Reiki you may also blend your practice into this process. For QiGong, you can stand upright and balance out, then use the breath and your arms to gather and discharge energy. Slow, powerful yet graceful, fluid movements will greatly enhance this. The same applies for Reiki practitioners can hold a globe of the Earth or use a map to focus their awareness on that location and transfer energy through your body in a similar fashion. Creation provides many material “tools” to use but all that is truly required is the mind’s eye and the power of love.

Please share this message for those who wish to participate and share the co-creative intention, may we all be blessed by our thoughts, emotions and actions for the highest and best good of all!

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