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Taking Responsibility and Transmutation

Published January 16, 2019 by tindertender

There are those who consider themselves, and whom others consider to be, “upper hierarchy”. They make decisions which will afford them the results they desire. Often these decisions are immoral, although they do not believe so. This comes as no surprise, for often the actions by some which harm others do not come through the doers mind as immoral, they are simply trying to reshape reality into what they want, despite who it is that is harmed in the process.

Isn’t this the way? For instance … The Congress of the United States is off on vacation, refusing to put in action those skills which they were hired for … negotiation and compromise. They leisurely take time off, getting full pay while other government employees are not so lucky. They kick back and place the blame on one man, refusing to take responsibility in their part of the damage being done to so many lives. They do not see themselves as immoral or unethical. For them, it appears to be a natural thing, sluffing off duty, causing harm, and placing blame elsewhere.

The woman, or man, who uses their body and sexual enterprise to manipulate circumstances, is the same as Congress. Both parties prostitute themselves for pay, and their hearts are not involved in any of the decisions made. It is simply business … and outside people are not considered … although they make show that they are.

An immoral person has no base to judge morality. Thy cannot see beyond what they are, and they will never ask of themselves if what they are doing could cause harm for others … instead, they see the harm done and place blame elsewhere. As with the one using sex as a tool, when the others wife, or husband finds out, they say it is their partners fault for participating in what they were ‘selling’. Just as the “partner” of Congress, the President, is being blamed for actions they refuse to take in order to make things right again.

There are no ethics, morals, or persons of integrity in the system … perhaps there never were. Perhaps it is these others who consider themselves ‘above’ everyone else, placing influence in the minds and hearts of the so-called ‘leaders’. Maybe they can shift the blame to these outside influencers instead of their fellow human, if they can conceive of the idea in their mind. These outside influences have taken their toll on all life.

This isn’t to say people should shuck their responsibility for things they do. On the contrary, they must. They must become strong enough to speak from their hearts (truly, void of outside source) and accept responsibility for their choices, and the affect these choices have on other life.

Those who stand back and point fingers at this person, or that person … it’s their fault … while not even attempting to rein in their own misdeeds … well, they’re just hypocrites. Over paid, spoiled individuals who have never been held accountable while they siphon tax payer dollars and purchase mansion after mansion, and then siphon even more to give freely to those who bring destruction to stability.

Crooks and criminals in high places, feel they are beyond measure … they’ll be quite surprised when their portion is served to them. I imagine they’ll join the others in the beyond when their body quits them, and from there they will continue to bring influence which endangers life.

Someone ‘out there’ needs to gather up these energetic thought forms which remain after physical death and transmute them into something more positive. Or … perhaps it is humanity which must learn this skill and take charge of the shift themselves, become movers in the game, rather than pawns. Perhaps some of this shift can happen while the damagers are still in body.

Transmutation: the action of changing or the state of being changed into another form. This process is like a boot camp to prepare you for the mission you came here for: Helping humanity and planet earth to ascend. It is not for the faint of heart and not a walk in the park. There are many helpful tools to make it as smooth as possible in learning how to be an alchemist.

1) Be Grateful. 2) Disidentify with your ego. 3) Forgive yourself and others. 4) Accept, embrace and let go. 5) Heal your inner child. 6) Redirect the energies and find joy. 7) Love yourself, and treat Yourself well. 8) Appreciate your body. 9) Sound healing. 10) Keep your power. 11) Sharing. 12) Grounding and rebalancing in nature. 13) Watch children. 14) Don’t try, allow. 15) Find correlations and get to know your System.

How to practice Tonglen in seven steps: 1) Get centered. 2) Call to mind someone who is suffering. 3) Breathe in their pain. 4) Transmute darkness into light. 5) Send them Peace. 6) Repeat. 7) Move on to someone else.

The more people who practice transmutation: negatives and those things that harm, into positives and those things that bring joy, the better, and more quickly consciousness will ascend.

https://thewakeupexperience.eu/15-tips-become-master-alchemist-transmute-energies/

https://zenfulspirit.com/2015/12/10/how-to-transmute-negative-energy-with-tonglen-meditation/

https://trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/larson17.shtml

Stepping Back, And Away

Published December 28, 2018 by tindertender

I typically do not watch television, or the news from any outlet, but this recent argument between “sides” of our government and the ensuing shut down snagged my attention.

I found myself exhibiting the emotional behaviors of these people, those with an incessant need to fight and struggle with each other for power.

Three days I gave them my attention … three days I allowed them into my mind with their relentless goal of taking from the American people and giving to those less fortunate.

It took me many years to get to a situation where I do not have to eat potatoes, beans and top ramen for dinner, being able to afford a little something more. But now I see many of those dual citizens in government don’t even want me to have that, considering it abundance which should be redistributed.

Yes, I’m feeling a little upset about this. So …

I am drawing a bath right now. Whatever bad juju these people have been sending through the WiFi will be washed away in a nice salt soak. I will listen to some solfeggio frequencies and remove this negativity from my energetic form, my mental form, and also my physical form.

I really have no say in what these corrupt people do with our hard earned tax dollars, they will give it to whomever they see fit no matter how I feel about it. So I reclaim my emotional well-being … they can spit fire at each other all they want … without my input.

While being ‘outside’ the hysteria of the world most times, it is easy to see how it affects the mind and emotional body when one does step into it. This stuff they broadcast into homes is so, so bad.

Cooperation Begets Cooperation

Published December 28, 2018 by tindertender
Great Wall Of China

There are so many people in this world who demand they be given this and that … from people who do not have much, who have been robbed blind already, left with just enough to get by. The robbers live lives of comfort, claiming this country is one of the wealthiest … and it is, but the wealth has been compiled into little safes, kept from those who have worked toward its accumulation, and given to those who demand illegal entry and benefit.

This whole thing is out of control. I am not against people migrating to the US … most of our families have done the same at one time or another. There are laws in place, rules, as to how to go about becoming a citizen. If people are not willing to follow these laws upon entry …. well, we’ve already seen that the rest of our laws are not followed either.

If you want to be in America, do what is needed to become and American Citizen. That’s all … play the game, by the rules, or don’t play at all.

The citizens who were born here must play by these same rules. If they do not, they are jailed. It should be no different for anyone else.

The American children are required to be injected with (if I’m counting correctly) 31 doses of vaccination in the first 15 months of life, and another 26 vaccinations up to their 18th year. That is 57 vaccinations in 18 years. Yet people are being allowed to cross the border having never been inoculated against any of the things the US children are. They go to school, go to work, without ever being tested to see if they are carrying a disease. When a horrible outbreak happens, the ‘pro-vaxers’ blame the ‘anti-vaxers’ rather than those who have never received a vaccination, entering illegally.

The children who are in the news which have died recently while in custody at the border did not die of abuse. They were sick when they arrived, so sick, they died. This is not the fault of the border agents … this is due to lack of care on this outrageous journey they endured. I do not wish to see children die, any of them. They are pawns in a game adults everywhere are playing with each other. Just stop it.

Play by the rules, pay with patience, jump through the hoops the actual citizens of this country are forced to jump through for any benefit … these are NOT entitlements. There are no privileges, or rights. Every benefit anyone ever receives here is earned. I think this is why so many people are upset over this scenario … the things we must earn, are being given freely to those who have not earned it.

This has become a matter of life and death. People in countries all over the world are seeing what mass ‘illegal’ immigration has done to their way of life, and their security. We are in the throes of trying to protect ourselves now, and it is plain that many of our (Dual citizen) representatives of the senate and congress are not of the mind to help us, conflict of interest runs vast in these offices.

No one of dual citizenship should be permitted to make decisions for this country, or its people.

https://prepareforchange.net/2018/06/22/89-of-our-senators-and-congress-hold-dual-citizenship-citizenship-with-israel/

Dose, After Dose ~ Keep It

Published December 26, 2018 by tindertender

It’s strange, I thought drinking kombucha would balance the stomach bacteria, making it easier for foods to be digested. That could still be the case, and the fact I haven’t been eating too healthy lately might be the culprit.

I’ve jumped on the political train the last few days, and boy oh boy, do I want off. People are acting crazy … attacking each other, making an inter-country battle with each other rather than working for the common good of all.

I know how this President must feel, trying so hard to do what is right for the country and it’s people while they slander and attack his every move, his every word. I, at one time, had to do battle with the social security administration for about a year, all the while the one I was fighting for told me nearly daily I was wasting my time, that I would never succeed (he was wrong). Working hard for the benefit of someone who constantly attacks your efforts gets pretty old, pretty fast. But when you care, you continue to do your best for them.

It is also obvious that for many people, someone’s best efforts will never be good enough. Some folks gravitate toward the negative aspects in a situation, while others choose to see the positive aspects, the possibilities.

I think I’ll take an exit for awhile and just observe people as they bash each other. It is not pretty, no where near, for we see the lack of care for each other growing amid those who choose the internal war, while compassion grows between those who work together so that each working member benefits from each other’s contributions. By this, I mean the ‘politicians’ getting off their high horses and mingling with the people they claim to care about, being partners with, instead of ‘lords’ over.

I swear, as tricky and troublesome as those in spirit can sometimes be, I wonder which life form (human or otherwise) is actually more worthy of my attention. I think I’ll just go snuggle up with my pups. At least they have a consistent dose of love to give.

Balancing The World

Published December 10, 2018 by tindertender

In frustration male #1 vehemently says, “Fine!”
Male #2 responds, “We have a job to do.”
Male #1, “How are we going to __________ her?”
Male #2, “We adore her.”
Male #1(?), “She’s accelerating.”
Male #3, “One or the other.”

The Infinite Self is a rebel. As a child, and any child you hear having conversation today, many questions are asked, typically in the form of “Why?” There is a presence here which knows the Infinite Self is a rebel, and Strong. It breaks the child when they are young and leads them into conformity. You see the many systems which are in place to complete this task.

Should the child grow, or be stubborn enough to rebel, sometimes recklessly, then this ‘presence’ must work over-time to tame the heart of them, toying with the mind, implanting self-doubt, breaking down self-confidence. This child, by now young adult, must continue to “buck the system’ so-to-speak, if they wish to hold onto their inherent power.

Many people are influenced to assist in this ‘breaking’ of the spirit of the rebellious one. Often it ends in suicide, or uncontrolled rebellion which ends in someone getting hurt, and then prison, where they no longer are able to threaten the ‘system’ which is in place.

But sometimes … they survive. 
Sometimes, they remain free.

After trauma, and should there be survival, this rebellious one will climb from the pits of darkness and enter the light once more. From this place, having been intimate with that which has tried to destroy them, they are much stronger than before, and have knowledge of the tactics used to try and rid them from this reality.

Lessons learned, a grace forms in the mind as they see the affects of these ploys upon people in their surroundings. Compassion grows as they witness others fighting this attack. Understanding has formed in their minds and they are able to assist, should one ask, or be open to suggestions on how to beat this charge.

There are many here who have walked through darkness, who have shed that which does not serve them, or the goodness of life. While  climbing from the pit of this darkness, they left behind that which allowed them to be put there in the first place. They suffered a ‘rebirth’ and now utilize their lives for healing what remains broken in their own hearts and minds, and then allowing compassion, care, and love to overflow into this world.

Embrace your inherent power, your strength. Shed cocky arrogance, go deep into the heart of things, see yourself in others around you. We are more alike than (originally) may have been admitted.

Healing your own heart, mending your broken spirit, you learn techniques which can benefit others … by healing yourself, you begin to heal the world.

It is a difficult task. It is painful to look deep into ones own psyche and critique it, tossing aside that which brings chaos, and replacing it with that which brings harmony. This is the most sacred work anyone can do … for this is what will heal and balance the world.

Once this work is complete, all things needed for balance in this world will occur. Alignment must happen, and it begins in ones own heart and mind.

Remember, this work you do not only benefits the life you can see, but that which you cannot. Those waiting to be born need us to do this work, so they have a safe environment to enter, otherwise, they’ll have to arrive and show us how it is done.

You know already what needs to be done … it simply needs to be put in motion. You are fully capable and able … are you willing?

True Love Needs No Coaxing

Published December 4, 2018 by tindertender

I love many of the old love songs from the 70’s, they are my favorite. One thing I notice about them is they are singing of the need to convince someone of the love in their heart. I suppose this was the beginning (or perhaps the 60’s) of the shifting of love.

It seems the more we try to cling to love, the quicker it slips through the fingers. Love cannot be held, owned, possessed or controlled. Love must be set free, acknowledged for its power, and honored when it presents itself, in all forms, and also released when it’s purpose in our life (or the others) is complete.

Often when someone professes love they are laughed at, or outright attacked. Love is gentle, it is kind, it is open and free. There IS a force influencing this world to tear it down. The unconscious person flows with this attempt and acts upon it. It is no surprise that barriers have been erected to protect the heart.

I have been fortunate to love deeply four times in this life. Every time when it came to end, I was crushed … absolutely crushed. The final two times rendered me useless for the world for a time. The last especially … my mind disintegrated.

Rebuilding self I understand now that love flows, just as the shadow forms around everything, love is also intertwined there. It is a dance many call heartache. The heart aches with pure joy, and it aches when that joy decreases, or morphs into a new appearance. It is our concept of what love should be that causes this, for when it does not match our ideals, this is when the pain comes.

Love can last for short, or long times. When it stops flowing for us we tend to cling to it. The fact that love cannot be bound, is free, and moves whether we wish for it to or not often leads to pain. People have this habit of trying to force things, only making the pain worse. They forget why they loved, and it becomes anger, even hate. Rather than honoring loves flow they lay claim to it and retaliate when it is discovered to have grown wings.

It is thought that love is obligated to oblige the heart of others. Love is not obligated to anything but flow, to giving freely. I am not talking about being promiscuous or loosey goosey, but becoming part of this flow which is free.

It is a pity that love has actually come down to the physical involvement: sex. Sex is not love, it is something that accompanies it. Yet love exists even when sex is not involved. Love is so simple it is hard to understand. Humanity has complicated it with rules and stipulations. This is another one of those things that has become bastardized in this time.

There is coming a return to love, true love. Love owes us nothing, love is something we grow in our hearts until over flowing … this is how it enters the world, yet many people are looking to fill their cups from outside sources and are left wanting, every time.

Loosen up. You will begin to see the flow and a gratefulness will fill your heart when it flows your way, and you will be grateful for the next person who experiences that love which has touched you, knowing what a blessing it truly is. You will be happy for them, you will be happy you’ve had the experience, and you will be happy for the person who is sharing love with the world.

You will recognize that because love is no longer being poured into you from an outside source does not mean you are empty of love. The love within you is amplified by these gifts, and you can continue to grow your sweet garden of love yourself. Someone will come along that joins you again, and again, and again … it does not mean there will be sex involved, it means you will know what true love is, and participate in its advancement in the world.

Beautiful, whole, and free.

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