FEMININE JOURNEY TO SELF-LOVE AND EMPOWERMENT

Published November 18, 2020 by tindertender

She’s coming into her power…

The more she treated him like a king the more he treated her as his slave, She couldn’t understand this because she thought that if she gave him everything… putting him before her, he would crown her as his queen, but what she didn’t realize was that he wanted someone full of her “self” not emptied of her “self”, someone that would bring forth the hunter, the warrior and the hero in him, someone who’s respect needed to be earned. Instead she brought forth the exploiter, the betrayer and the abuser in him. She felt justified in feeling victimized and she wallowed in this murky swamp with her finger pointing in the wrong direction feeling falsely vilified in her suffering, feeling falsely supported by the sympathy of her friends…

It took her several rounds with different partners and a great deal of pain before she finally got it, “her external relationships were always mirroring back to her, her internal relationship with herself”. This was the relationship that she was being called to feed and nurture.

Her “Aha” moment came when she realized that it wasn’t the external king that she needed to bow down to but the royal queen within herself. She’s sitting on her throne now, it’s new and alien to her so she hasn’t quite relaxed completely into the sumptuous velvet cushion, but she’s aware of who she is and she’s determined to rule her own kingdom.

She now knows what she wants and she’s not willing to compromise…
She’s not willing to sell herself in order to be verified, She’s verifying herself…
She’s filling her own cup with self loving so she’s not ravenous for his…
She’s creating boundaries where they are needed and opening what was closed from fear…
She’s holding back some, she’s no longer so blindly eager to please…
She’s giving but keeping enough of herself to serve the queen that she is.

The suitors are lining up, they are respectful because her presence commands that respect…

She’s a woman who is discovering her royal, “Divine feminine” blood line and she’s stepping up to who she truly is.

~ Author Unknown

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