Why do you say there is a problem? Are you insinuating I have a problem, or is it you? Well … of course, we all have a problem … it’s called getting over the next hurdle. But then, that can be looked at as a challenge as well … Are you challenging me?
Hahaha … the things which come along during that portion of night when one is half awake and half asleep.
The mind-set we choose to carry with us during the day determines attitudes and opportunities presented. Knowing this, what will you do?
When we decide to remain positive, smiling and feeding the happy bug we like to carry with us, someone(s) will come along and do their very best to tear that down and squash that bug. Be aware of this … and continue smiling anyway, continue with the reaching for positive outcomes, be patient and kind. The naysayers will leave eventually for they cannot cope with sustained effort for peaceful states of being.
Don’t cave and become what they wish you to become. Do not get angry and lash out, this is the energy that feeds the negative nelly.
Difficult? Yes, until you recognize what triggers you and then work on making certain your triggers are not ‘flippable’, it will be.
Inner work is tough, but so are you … fully capable of undoing the harm done. You came here with every single tool you need to create peace and balance. Remember … and then do.