Ebb and flow …
To see a long time friend who was once a confident, grab the world by the hair kinda guy, become someone who is unsure and just waiting for deaths knock on the door, is unnerving. I remember how vibrant he was, so sure and untouchable.
Now it seems my future will embrace the need for his care, I am so very happy to have opportunity to play this role, although 30 years ago I foresaw that role being much different.
Ebb and flow … relationships change over time. It is amazing to me when I look back and remember, and then come back to the present and see. I never thought it would be this way … which, by the way, the way I envision has not occurred, it is only a potential outcome.
Funny how the mind tries to get ahead of everything.