Stand tall in your integrity, be true to you.

Published May 12, 2016 by tindertender

This morning I awake to see two horoscopes telling me today is going to be a challenging day, suggesting that perhaps I cause jealousy in others. Well, I am not going to own someone else’s emotions. I cannot. All I can do is try to be a better version of myself than I was yesterday. And my effort will go toward that rather than appeasing or assuaging another’s feelings or emotional balance. That is their responsibility alone.


I will go by the new house tonight and cleanse the carpets in the back 2 rooms and paint the main bathroom. We move in this weekend. There is still so much to do, but at least we’ll be on site to do it at a pace that is more comfortable. I look forward to being there.

Today, in recent days as a matter of fact, I find that authority figures, or A NEW authority figure, is attempting to make me responsible for another and her emotional garbage. If you too are experiencing something to this affect, DON’T take that crap! Don’t quit your job, just don’t allow some jack hole to cause you to undermine your own integrity and belief in yourself, and NEVER take on responsibility for another’s actions or behaviors. Do NOT own that, it isn’t yours, no matter how hard someone tries to convince you of it.

Always put forth your best effort, always stand in the belief you have value, never allow someone to diminish your sense of worth. You see, even when there is jealousy that causes stress in our lives, we must stand tall in who we are.

We cannot please everyone. We must first please ourselves. What does this mean to you? To me, it means walking with head held high, doing my best, living a life of integrity, not lying, and not taking on an emotional load that isn’t mine. Being willing to help in all situations if able is good, however when someone attempts to spin lies, and then others actually base their opinions on these, well … too bad for them.

As I have said before, changes are among us, every day, and they will occur whether we wish them, or not. That’s life folks. Roll with them, do not hold on to anything, if it’s good, or bad … move through the situation as if you are the wind.

Get your flow on. Believe in yourself. Trust your inner guidance.

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